Wang Jiake is a model of family education. Ma Bao Bao Er is a novice parent, but she is not negligent in educating her children. When children do something wrong, parents don't just scold them with words.
They only know what they can do to their children, what they can't do, what they can't do, and children will be punished if they do something wrong. Parents never "verbally attack" their children when they make mistakes. On the contrary, if the child does well, praise the child appropriately. Children are therefore very sensible and never talk back to their parents.
Many parents don't understand why children are sensible and obedient and don't talk back to their parents. How should parents judge whether their parenting style is correct? What should parents do?
How are obedient children educated? Parents should learn these three points.
1. Parents should judge whether their educational methods are correct.
Often the family is good, and the well-educated children are not bad. Many parents of beginners don't know how to educate their children. In the process of educating children, they are always anxious. Without a good grasp of the scale, the educational effect of children is often less.
In order to change this situation, the first thing parents should do is to judge whether their educational methods are correct. If you meet children with different personalities from different families, the education methods may be fundamentally different. Good educational methods can often cultivate excellent people.
Some children are more obedient, and it may be the right way for parents to educate their children by swearing. But for children who are easy to resist and be naughty, adopting this kind of education method may be counterproductive. Therefore, parents of different children should adopt different educational methods and choose methods suitable for their children's personality.
Parents should also observe more in life, improve their own educational methods, and let their children get a better education.
How are obedient children educated? Parents should learn these three points.
Parents should pay attention to their own way of speaking and help their children solve difficulties in life.
In a family, the people who have the greatest influence on children are parents. It is said that parents are the first teachers among children, and parents' words and deeds also silently influence children in their lives. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their way of speaking and attitude, so that children can fully feel their parents' love. (David Asher, North? Exposure (American drama, family) is a well-known parent in words and deeds, and his children often become polite people.