As parents, our responsibility is not only to provide material support, but more importantly, to help children build self-confidence and independence and become a valuable person. This paper will discuss how to cultivate children's self-confidence and independent spirit from many aspects to help parents educate their children better.

Listen to the child's inner world

As parents, we should learn to listen to children's inner world, understand their feelings and thoughts, and avoid easily denying or criticizing their views.

Send affirmation and praise in time.

When children perform well, we should give affirmation and praise in time, so that children can feel their efforts and value and stimulate their confidence and motivation.

Achievement is not the only criterion to measure people.

Don't let grades and competition become the whole of children's lives, let them understand the diversity of life values, and grades are not the only criterion for measuring people.

Encourage children to try new things.

By encouraging children to try new things and supporting their hobbies, we can help them build strong self-confidence and meet future challenges.

Give children proper autonomy.

Give children proper autonomy and let them think and solve problems independently, so as to cultivate self-esteem and independent spirit and grow and progress better.