Divert the child's attention.
When children reach a certain age, they have to go through a period of rebellious psychology. If he insists on patient persuasion, it will be useless for a long time. It is better to put things aside and do something else to distract the child.
Find out the reason and prescribe the right medicine.
There are always some internal special reasons for children's disobedience. At this time, parents should pay attention to observation and analysis and find the right reasons. For example, if a child doesn't feel any injustice, is unhappy, can't say it, and can't let it go, he takes the opportunity to vent to his parents.
Establish rules
Sometimes a child is disobedient and unwilling to cooperate with his parents because he doesn't understand or forget the rules of conduct. Remind the child again, which can make the child feel and understand, but pay attention to the expression and tone, don't shout, and explain or make demands to the child in a firm and gentle tone.
set a good example
Although young children know the instructions and rules, it is difficult for them to decide what to do. When he doesn't act or accept instructions, we think the child is disobedient. Therefore, while letting the child know the rules of action, he or she should be instructed how to do it.