(A) the germination of children's love for the motherland is the virtue of mankind, but also the glorious tradition and precious heritage of the Chinese nation. This is a great motivation for success. From our scientists and mathematicians Li Siguang and Hua, we can see the great power of patriotism. For young children, to cultivate their love for the motherland, we should start from the side. Suhaolingji asked his students to love their mother first. He said: if a child even loves his mother, his mother will be easy to understand and do, laying the foundation for patriotic education in the future. "Therefore, parents should educate their children to bring joy to their mothers, fathers, grandfathers and grandmothers, share their sorrows and misfortunes, care for and care for adults' diseases, and let their parents and relatives eat delicious food first. They can also lead their children to appreciate the mountains and rivers of the motherland through sightseeing, visiting and traveling. Knowing the vast territory, rich material and long culture of the motherland can cultivate children's love and sprout their love for the motherland. We can also adopt lively and formal educational activities, such as festivals, stories, paintings and birthdays. Let the children feel the joy of being children in China and know that their happiness today is the result of the struggle and sacrifice of the older generation of revolutionaries, heroes and scientists.
(2) Make children form the good habit of being polite, and polite behavior is the symbol of socialist spiritual civilization. Civilized and polite behavior habits are formed by long-term practice from childhood. Therefore, from an early age, children are required not to swear, not to swear, to be friendly, warm and polite, and not to interrupt others; Respect the old and love the young; When visiting other people's homes, don't rummage around, behave yourself when eating, and so on.
(3) Cultivate children to be honest and tell the truth. Teach children to hand in whatever they find, not to hide their mistakes, and to be brave in correcting them. The most important thing for children to do this effectively is the educational attitude of parents. If they blindly blame their children for their mistakes, it is difficult to cultivate their quality. When parents find their children lying, they should analyze the reasons and solve them in a targeted way. If their children want to buy colored paintings, their parents refuse. As a result, the children stole from their neighbors behind their parents' backs. Some children did something wrong and lied for fear of being scolded and beaten, while others lied to satisfy vanity and so on. If parents criticize their children indiscriminately, this will not solve the problem. Parents should be role models for their children. Some children are dishonest, steal from others and lie because of the bad behavior of adults. This subtle influence will make children form deep-rooted bad habits, and parents should not take it lightly.
(4) Cultivate children's diligence and frugality. Children's diligence and frugality are cultivated through labor. Children's work mainly starts from the following aspects: first, self-help, doing their own things, dressing themselves, washing their faces, brushing their teeth, eating, making beds, toys and so on. Self-help labor can cultivate children's life order and ability to live independently. And lay a good foundation for children to participate in housework and social welfare work. Second, housework can help children care and take care of their families, take the initiative to care for others in adulthood, and maintain good relations with all kinds of people. At the same time, they can gain the ability to live through labor, and create happiness, harmony and family with their own hands when they grow up. Through housework, children's participation consciousness and labor concept can be enhanced. Children can wash dishes and chopsticks, clean the living room and pick vegetables. Buy small things nearby. Through labor, we can cultivate children to cherish the fruits of labor, cultivate children's good qualities of loving labor, saving and frugality, and do not waste water, electricity and food, and do not compare clothes and toys with others. Girls do not wear makeup or jewelry.
(5) Cultivate children's generous, hospitable and selfless character, which can restrain themselves from getting along with others. Now there are more only children, children live alone and eat more. It is very important to cultivate children's generous and selfless friendship with others. They are required to play with children, share food and toys together, and abide by the rules of the game and tidy up toys. Through various activities, children can get along with other children and cultivate their life rhythm.
(6) Cultivating children's brave, strong, lively and cheerful personality courage refers to a psychological quality that people are not afraid of danger and difficulties and have courage. This quality is combined with people's self-confidence and the ability to consciously overcome fear, and must be cultivated from an early age. It is necessary to educate children to dare to speak and perform in front of strange groups; Encourage children to participate in sports activities and other various game activities within their power to cultivate their self-confidence; When children hear loud talk or thunder, wind or rain in the dark, don't panic or be afraid. They can overcome all kinds of difficulties, stick to the task, and dare to admit their mistakes and mistakes. In daily life, parents should pay attention to using correct educational methods, often encourage and support their children to participate in various beneficial activities, and don't blame, laugh at, dig at and intimidate their children casually. In order to avoid the formation of children's timidity and cultivate children's brave quality, parents should teach their children the corresponding knowledge and skills, so that children will have enough self-confidence. Children's timid behavior is mostly due to lack of self-confidence, which is based on necessary knowledge and skills. For example, children will be frightened by lightning and storms and feel uneasy about the darkness. It is because of the lack of corresponding knowledge and ability. Parents should explain relevant knowledge to them and teach them some corresponding skills and methods, so that children's fear will be alleviated a lot. If children are afraid of difficulties, it is often because they lack confidence in their abilities. If the child is really weak in ability and talent, parents should not only meet the actual level of the child as much as possible. Children should also receive specific guidance and help. When he has done what he can, he should be affirmed immediately, no matter how trivial. In addition, parents can also use the brave images in real-life literary works, such as facts, stories, movies and dramas, to influence and educate their children and help them overcome their fears. Children are naturally active, and develop their movements, intelligence and morality while moving. Excessive exercise will affect their organizational discipline and good development of attention. Therefore, parents should correctly guide and cultivate their children's self-control in various activities, so that they can become lively, cheerful and good at controlling their own personality.