1. Listen and respect: give children full attention and respect, and let them feel that they are understood and valued. Listen to their thoughts, questions and feelings and give them respect.
2. Communicate in simple and clear language: communicate with children in simple and clear language according to their age and understanding ability. Avoid using too complicated or abstract words, and explain the problem in plain language.
3. Encourage the expression of emotions: Children usually express their emotions more directly and truly. Encourage them to express their feelings in words or other ways and share your feelings and experiences with them.
4. Patience and calmness: Patience and calmness are very important when communicating with children. Don't rush to give answers or guidance, give them time and space to think and express.
5. Build trust and contact: It is very important to build trust and contact with children. Try to create an open, warm and intimate environment to make them feel safe and comfortable.
6. Provide positive feedback and encouragement: Give positive feedback and encouragement to children's efforts and progress, and enhance their self-confidence and motivation.
7. Set clear boundaries and rules: Educating children also needs to set clear boundaries and rules to let children know what is acceptable and what is unacceptable. This can help them establish order and self-discipline.
8. Give responsibility and decision-making power: give children responsibility and decision-making power appropriately, give children the opportunity to participate in decision-making, and cultivate their sense of responsibility and independent thinking ability.
9. Create opportunities for interaction and learning: Encourage children to participate in interesting activities and learning, such as outdoor games, artistic creation, reading and exploring science. Promote their learning and growth through interaction and personal experience.
10. Keep an open mind: educating children is a process of mutual learning and growth. Keep an open mind, keep learning and adapting, and grow together with children.
Remember, every child is unique, and it is very important to choose the communication and education methods that suit you. The above suggestions are for reference only. You can adjust the application according to your own and your children's actual situation.