What parents can't educate is social education.
The latter two kinds of education are positive education in the true sense. Social education is not exactly education, but it is a negative education, or the lessons or experiences are more accurate. The former two are passive, while the latter is active or cooperative. Society is a big dye vat, which allows you to clean up the mud without dyeing, and also allows you to get close to Zhu Zhechi, and everyone close to ink is black! It's up to you! The first two are both willing and well-intentioned education, and the latter, hehe, is natural and unconscious. The first two are pushing you forward, but the latter are not necessarily. The first two are to give you experience, and the last one is to sum up experience and keep exercising. But the result is the same, that is, you are an extraordinary person! What has society taught us? I wonder if some "buzzwords" in society are correct. Many serious and disciplined people are often dismissed as "fools", such as the words and deeds of picking up money, and often have comments of "boredom" and "nothing to do". Montesquieu said: "We receive three kinds of education, one from parents, one from teachers and the other from society. The third kind of education is completely opposite to the first two kinds of education. " I was very sad when I read it, and I didn't know how to accept it ... When I remembered, the truest and most vivid beauty in life had already disappeared like a broken kite ... I myself have always been puzzled, and I can't figure out: What has society taught us? Is it the principle of life or the way of life? Or what? I don't know. Be quiet and talk less. It is reported that a lady was robbed when people came and went in a square, although she cried and shouted "robbery, robbery, catch him quickly!" " ! People around you watched eagerly, turned a blind eye. 1 10 arrived and asked where it was going. People's answers were very close, "I didn't see it" and "I don't know". This kind of atmosphere, not to mention being popular all over the world, is at least an exaggeration to say that it occupies "half of the country"; Streets and alleys, women and children, old and young. Although critics severely criticized this phenomenon in Focus Interview, this "quiet and less talking" atmosphere still prevails. People are still quiet and disciplined. Perhaps, a child said, "Mom, I saw him. He ran away from the alley. Go and tell the police uncle. " But this purity, which comes from the truth, will eventually be suppressed and stifled by the public's "quiet and talk less" cleverness and shortcut. Talk to society, and it will tell you: be smart and take shortcuts. That's right. "If you want to save time and effort and get twice the result with half the effort, you must take shortcuts." At this time, the math teacher in primary school once taught us. Under the guidance of society, many people have played to the extreme; Small boats made of old wooden blocks can be regarded as "mud balls" crossing the strait; Ask the secretary to make a meal and you can "run the red light all the way"; Sending a sum of money to the Director-General is not even a problem to promote the doctrine ... Needless to say, who doesn't want to be a twin? It is close enough to say this "shortcut", and it is enough to leave many talented people far behind and greet the sedan chair by themselves and sing "I succeeded"! And those who are truly talented and knowledgeable become "idiots." Do it boldly. At the noisy intersection, there is a banner hanging high, which reads: Strive to build a modern civilized city. Adults cry day and night: Fiona Fang cannot be made without rules. Everyone should obey the traffic rules and be humble to each other. However, the scene of people and cars being brave has long been commonplace. Some people think: he dare not stop? Others think: is he afraid to hide? Everyone shouted in unison: be bold and rush over. In an instant, the master of life is as simple as flipping a coin. Do not deny the fear of heaven, people's footsteps are as firm as ever. I can only snicker at this ... My eyes turned to our teenagers. Nowadays, many students are chasing "Korean Wave" and love watching Korean dramas. The elegant temperament, gentle words, comprehensive etiquette and strict family style in Korean dramas make people yearn for it and show us civilization and aestheticism that can't be found in reality. This is probably a big reason why we love Korean dramas. I think, in the education of our society, there is a sour taste, that is, the idea of "everyone for himself" has become a dark cloud, which has been lingering in our hearts. The truest and most vivid beauty in life is already a broken kite. ...