1 If parents want to get twice the result with half the effort in educating their children, they must first gain the trust of their children. If children trust us, they will believe everything we say, and naturally they will not be rebellious. But we need to trust each other. Parents should believe that their children are excellent. When they make mistakes, don't blame them blindly, but patiently teach them ways and means to do things. This will give children more care and confidence, and they will become better.

Usually, we should have a positive and optimistic attitude towards our children and show them our beautiful image. No matter how unhappy our work and life are and how bad our mood is, we must not show it in front of them. Such a family and such an environment are most conducive to the growth of children.

When children have abnormal signs, we should communicate with them as soon as possible, which will also narrow the distance between us and our children. Of course, different communication methods will have different effects, so we should pay attention to the communication methods and learn to put ourselves in the other's shoes, so as not to look at the children's behavior unilaterally.

We should also remember that we shouldn't spoil our children too much, even if they are the only children in the family. Because doting will make children form a self-centered thought and think that they are the most important, thus naturally accepting the tolerance of others.

When children encounter any problems or obstacles in the process of growing up, we should provide them with solutions in time and encourage and guide them out of the predicament. Don't give them too much pressure at this time.

The biggest contradiction between us and our children is learning. We don't complain or blame children for their poor study. Now, children study very hard. Faced with the pressure from parents, schools and classmates, they generally don't study hard. At this time, parents can look at their children's other advantages and try to let them develop in all aspects. A long time ago, my children were rebellious, often fighting with their classmates, and their academic performance was poor. Later, I downloaded a set of brain development courses from Baidu, and the children changed this bad situation after learning the courses. He became sensible and filial, and no longer rebelled. Memory and comprehension have improved, class is no longer distracted, and academic performance has begun to advance by leaps and bounds. "Tesla Potential Development" has comprehensively improved the child's intelligence and emotional intelligence, and made him have a better learning state. My experience should help you. As long as you have the courage to start, you can find the way to success.