For a rebellious child, if he moves towards his own life direction, we should be optimistic with the mood of the person who bears life; If he strays into the abyss of depravity, we should get there at once and stand with him.
Rebellion is a period of adolescence between children and adults. During this period, as teenagers begin to become adults, some psychological and physical changes will take place. In order to adapt to these changes, there may be some behavioral deviations or emotional instability during this period. We all have periods of stability and instability.
Rebellion is universal, not necessarily related to any specific development period or experience, but sometimes it can help us grow. The rebellious period will be particularly sensitive in psychological state, and naturally there will be many factors that affect emotional development, which also makes many teachers mistakenly think that their behavior is young and rebellious.
If parents and teachers don't understand the potential reasons for their children's performance, they will often blame them rather than care more, which is a source of great pressure and harm for teenagers. Most rebellions come from resistance to bondage and restriction. Besides him, teenagers also face various restrictions built by adults around them.
Solutions to adolescent rebellion
Don't reject teenagers' demands without thinking. After careful consideration, we should respond and discuss and find out sufficient reasons. As long as it is related to teenagers, they must be consulted in advance. Listen carefully and discuss with him, and respect the self-awareness of teenagers. Don't force them to accept everyone's demands.
Treat him as an adult and let him know that he is respected. After making a serious mistake, I will give you the opportunity to correct it, give you support and affirmation. We can't classify all deviant behaviors as rebellious periods, but we should understand them correctly. Try to get to know each other and don't limit yourself to the behaviors and attitudes that adults should have.