A column of Zhejiang TV Station "Don't underestimate me", because Fu Seoul, the debater of "Seven Ba Shuo", is one of the helpers.

Two days ago, Fu Seoul posted a video on his Weibo with a topic. What do you think of pampering?

In the program, she needs to take the little boy to the task distribution point on the top of the mountain.

Climbing a mountain on a hot day made the little boy Lei Lei very anxious. He said, I don't want to climb a mountain.

Fu Seoul asked him why, and he said that climbing the mountain was too tiring.

Gaga also said to herself, I want to fly to the top of the mountain.

Fu Hancheng said patiently, are you a bird? You can't fly without birds

Lei Lei said, I really don't want to climb.

Fu Hancheng said, shall we take the bus later?

Gaga exploded again: I don't want to take the bus, I want to climb up.

This is a very tangled boy, hoping that he has the strength to climb to the top of the mountain, and he doesn't want to sit in the car limply, but he is uncertain about the arduous task of climbing to the top of the mountain and feels full of difficulties.

Fu Hancheng is also very helpless: going, walking is tiring, my little master.

Seoul, as clever as Fu, suddenly thought of a trick, and I didn't want to leave. I sat directly on the ground, so tired.

Gaga was stunned by the change of her role. At first, he felt very tired climbing the mountain. Fu Seoul, who suddenly brought encouragement and motivation to himself, suddenly said that he was very tired and sat down on the ground. Gaga didn't directly say that she couldn't climb at all, but took Fu Seoul and said that you must persist.

Holmes is still talking to Herrera. I can't hold on any longer. I'm exhausted.

Gaga will only pull Fu Seoul and say, No, you must insist.

Fu Seoul took the opportunity to make a deal: don't quarrel after that.

Gaga agreed to Fu Seoul, and as a result, under the killer of Fu Seoul's coquetry and parenting, Gaga stopped spending her strength on complaining, but worked hard to climb the mountain and finally reached the top.

This kind of parenting is good and interesting.

When the children are running around outside.

Traditional parenting methods:

Many mothers run around the road when their children go out, only screaming after them. Don't run around. The car is dangerous, and the children will start running around in a few seconds at most.

Spoiled mother:

Don't run away, baby. So many cars are scared. If you hold your mother, the child will immediately feel important. He quickly stopped to hold his mother and muttered how he was so timid.

When you leave your children with your friends.

Traditional parenting methods:

I advise you to listen to menstruation at menstruation's house and stay close to her.

Spoiled:

Aunt's brain is not particularly smart. Follow her and don't let her get lost.

Children are lazy and don't do any housework.

Traditional parenting methods:

Mom can either do all the work by herself and nag at the same time. The child is too old for her to do this or that. What should she do when she grows up? The child stared at the screen of the mobile phone as if he didn't hear his mother's nagging.

Either force the children to work, don't clean up the room today, and don't come out for dinner. The child is very resistant inside, but he has to give in to his mother's arrogance, but his work is very rough.

Spoiled:

Son, this thing is too heavy. Help your mother. It's good to have a son, and I can help her with things.

Mom is cooking, what should I do if my clothes are not hung? I have to go out in a hurry later and help my mother dry the clothes.

Worried that children eat too much ice cream.

Traditional parenting methods:

I robbed the child of a handful of ice cream and refused to eat it. If I ate it again, I couldn't eat it.

Or children clamor for ice cream, and they simply don't buy it.

Spoiled:

When a child wants to eat ice cream, he only buys one. When the child eats a small portion, the mother begins to look at the child eagerly and say, Mother suddenly wants to eat ice cream, can she have a bite?

In case the child doesn't want to give up, the mother can pretend to cry and the child will start saying don't cry. Can't I feed you?

Does the child have an opinion?

Children who have no opinions can only go with the flow and do what others say. Children who have their own opinions are more likely to become leaders in their future work.

Mother is too strong since childhood, and children only need to listen to her when they grow up, so children have no ability to think independently, let alone have their own opinions, so strong mothers have raised weak children without opinions.

And spoiled mothers are better, and it is easier to raise strong children with opinions.

Probability of being bullied

Children raised by powerful mothers are passive Nuo Nuo, acting like kannika nimtragol. After growing up and working, I have no sense of existence in society, and I am easily bullied by others and dare not speak out.

Spoiling mothers raise their children, give them more decision-making power and let them think for themselves. Such children will be stronger and more powerful, and they will not be easily bullied by others outside the society.

The possibility of a child's success

A strong mother can only raise a puppet child, has no opinion of her own, and has poor independent thinking ability.

A child may do very well in school, but it doesn't mean that he can achieve better in society. After all, the job requires not only professional skills, but also independent thinking ability, innovation ability and interpersonal skills. Therefore, if the mother is strong, it is easier to raise a worthless child.

We say that children from poor families are in charge early. In fact, the weakness of the mother can make the child grow up faster, let the child know how to protect the mother from childhood, and let the child learn to think independently from childhood, so that it is easier for the child to achieve something in his work when he is an adult.

Mothers can be strong in the workplace, but when educating their children, it is best to learn to be spoiled and learn to show weakness, so that your children can become stronger. After all, parents will get old slowly, and children can only go on their own in the future.

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