As soon as I had this idea, I immediately felt so much and wanted to say so much that I didn't know where to start. Finally, just say a little more and start from the beginning!
The first time I met Nan Ming was the launch of the curriculum alliance of the beauty of the whole person from 2065438 to March 2008.
? I have been engaged in nature education, so I should be regarded as a person in the education circle. I naturally care about the education circle. When I heard that the "Beauty of the Whole Person" course alliance was going to be held in Yuncheng, I couldn't help but be curious to participate. This is not only my professional sensitivity, but also the bad situation my daughter encountered in traditional schools at that time, which needs to be solved. It is precisely because of this "selfishness" that I tactfully used a little "wrist"-encouraging my father to come with me, but he refused at once. Next, I dare to use the "killer":
"Education is the most prominent contradiction among many social contradictions at present. As a media person, you are dereliction of duty if you don't pay attention. As a father, I am very confused about the education of my children. You are dereliction of duty if you don't try to understand the crux and try to solve it! "
? Fortunately, my provocation worked, and he promised to go with me.
As soon as I entered Yuncheng International School, I felt different. What's different?
There are no slogans in the school.
There is no medal or plaque of this, that XXX school.
? The passing staff union greeted the visitors with a kind and natural smile.
? It was windy that day, and I felt that the wind blew people away. However, in the open space in the middle of the teaching building, some children after class chase each other and skate in circles. Wei Zhiyuan, the principal, and several teachers happened to pass by, and some children actually slipped away from the principal and teachers. According to the scene I saw before, the headmaster usually warns you to go slow and be careful to fall.
? In fact, Xiao Wei said nothing, read it with a faint smile, and still walked quietly. In his view, this should be normal.
? I'm a little surprised: ordinary schools try not to let children play freely, let alone dangerous roller skating. Children here don't seem to have too many restrictions on sports.
When we went to the Ivy Theatre to watch the children's Bridge concert, we were naturally shocked. What is shocking is not only how wonderful the children's performances are, but that this stage is shared by all children, not just some talented children.
Lunch is eaten in the school cafeteria. I see children eating in different areas according to different classes. I didn't see a whole team of teachers entering the canteen, and there was no teacher to supervise, but the overall order was good, and there was no slapstick and loud noise. After eating, they cleared up the dishes, wiped the table and left. I often see such a big child in public. If it weren't for the strong management of the teacher, it would be a breakthrough. I'm a little curious: how do they manage to keep these children disciplined?
When I communicated with the teachers later, they said that through the reading, writing and drawing courses of picture books, the establishment of children's order training was realized.
I followed the children after dinner to the playground. To the west of the playground is a playground. There are senior children playing football, and kindergarten children are walking around the corner under the guidance of the teacher. Several junior high school girls ran over and pulled kindergarten children to play the game of catching chickens with eagles. These pictures are really warm and vivid.
There is a stream near the playground, with cherry trees, pomegranate trees and other trees in the east, and a lawn below, where more than a dozen first-grade peas are playing. At this time, my senior media people give full play to their professional expertise: chatting and visiting.
"Do you like this school?"
"I like it!"
? "Today is Friday, you can go home in the afternoon. Are you looking forward to it? "
? "No, there are children playing here. It's boring to go home alone. "
? ……
? At this time, a kind of music was played on the radio, and the children said goodbye to us and went back to the dormitory for lunch break.
? In the afternoon, we saw the classroom through the door.
The child's father said: The teachers here have love in their hearts and passion in their chests. The children have light in their eyes and their wings are not trapped. It feels good.
When we decide our intention, our plan is to graduate from primary school and go to Nanming Yuncheng International Junior High School. At that time, I was very emotional: after so many years, our family has nothing, and it is still so consistent.
At this time, the contradiction between the daughter and the teacher broke out at school.
My daughter and I grew up on the farm together, with heroic personality and good self-discipline. Because the teacher she met at the beginning of primary school was a gentle and intelligent teacher, although her grades were average, she could see her honest and simple character, so she lived very quietly. In the fifth grade, the head teacher was autocratic and rigid. My daughter wrote a letter to the teacher to communicate. As a result, the teacher tore it up on the spot and asked my daughter to stand on the podium for a class. Since then, she has become a problem child, silent, passive and tired of learning.
The suffering and pain during this period is really unspeakable.
? The question before us is whether to continue to suffer, or to transfer to Nanming International School on the Yellow River in advance, which means weekly bumps and tiredness, as well as student status management, regional differences in the future college entrance examination and so on.
? At this time, the child's father firmly said: as long as the child can enjoy a real childhood for one more year, even if he faces more difficulties and problems in the future, I think it is worth it!
So, after a series of applications and procedures, my daughter became a student of Nanming Yuncheng International School.
Children who are nourished by the beauty of the whole person are in a state of being like a duck to water. She has never attended an art class, and her animated works have attracted many fans in the school circle. When the cultural activities of schools and classes need posters, she becomes the main creator; She has never studied guitar and is the top guitarist in her class. Originally, her academic performance was "soy sauce" in the class, and she actually occupied the top spot in the front row of the class.
? Whenever someone asks Nanming Yuncheng International School face to face, what is the difference between her original school and her own school, she will give an example:
? It turns out that I am most afraid of going to the teacher's office, because those of us who are not class cadres go to the teacher's office, are called to training and are criticized.
Now my classmates and I like to go to the teacher's office, because we don't have time to discuss some problems clearly in class, so we discuss them with the teacher in our spare time to stimulate our thinking. Teachers respect us here, and we study actively, think independently and explore independently.
? Because my daughter went to school in Nanming, the haze standing in our home was swept away. I am responsible for traveling between Shan Ye wholeheartedly to discover and explore the beauty of nature. Her father is responsible for doing business with peace of mind and making money to support his family. Her brother defends his country with a clear conscience, while our family sticks to ours.
? Looking back on the past two years when I became attached to Nanming, I am very pleased. It not only shows me another possibility of education, but also shows me that there are still a group of "divine" people who are doing things that lay the cornerstone of society in obscurity.