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How to educate rebellious children in junior high school
1, in the face of adolescent rebellious children, parents must first learn to be calm and rational. In the rebellious period, parents should not argue with their children, but should think from their children's point of view, respect their children, carry forward family democracy, listen to the opinions of all parties, give their children a chance to defend themselves and time to correct their mistakes, and do not use their parents' "majesty" to suppress their children and force them to yield.

2. Learn to understand children and often give them appropriate praise and encouragement. Learn to understand, appreciate and affirm children. In the eyes of parents, education can be full of hope. With the praise of parents, children will become happy, confident and full of happiness, and it is easier to accept their parents' opinions and overcome their own minor problems. If parents only criticize, reprimand, accuse or even beat and scold their children, it will not only affect their emotions, but also easily make them fall into the quagmire of inferiority.

3. Be patient with rebellious children, be sensible, be emotional and influence them with your heart. In the face of stubborn children, parents should be patient and don't play hardball with them. In front of children, parents should put down their "parents" airs, be patient, learn to "squat down" and talk to children on an equal footing, learn to listen to their voices, and treat children in a democratic and equal way. Maybe just a few minutes, a few warm words and a few gentle touches can untie the child's heart and let the child out of extreme rebellion.

4. We should grasp the scale of love and cultivate children to develop good behavior habits. It is far more difficult to get rid of a bad habit than to form a good one. In the process of helping children overcome bad habits, parents need to grasp the scale of love in time, be close to each other emotionally, communicate with each other spiritually and be flexible in methods. Give children proper love. If the child is really stubborn, give him some moderate punishment. Persuasion education is not the only means of education, and necessary punishment is still needed.