How should a boy aged about ten be educated 1. Solve children's behavior problems. Generally speaking, children in grades four and five have acquired certain moral cognitive ability. They can analyze and evaluate the behavior of themselves and others through certain moral principles, and begin to have certain willpower to control their impulses and know how to restrain their impulses. Behavior based on certain moral principles. However, children are still children. Although they know these principles in their hearts, their actions often fail to keep up. Therefore, parents' moral education for their children must combine moral cognition education with behavior education, especially pay attention to children's moral behavior education, so that children can strive to do what they say.
2. The application of suggestion method. An educator once said: in any kind of educational phenomenon, the less a child feels the intention of the educator, the greater his educational effect will be. No child likes to be in a position of education and control. By the fourth and fifth grades, children's self-awareness began to rise, and their self-esteem also improved a little. At this time, the hints of educational methods are most easily accepted by children.
3. Cultivate good habits with addition and overcome bad habits with subtraction. Good habits are cultivated bit by bit, and parents can't try to "eat a fat man in one bite". Let the children take their time on the principle of making progress every day. Bad habits are also being corrected bit by bit, which not only protects children's fragile self-confidence, but also makes them feel a sense of accomplishment in this process, and their self-confidence will be greatly enhanced.
Correcting children's bad habits requires parents' authority and perseverance. Parents should have certain authority to help their children get rid of bad habits and set some "rules" and "rules" for their children on the basis of unity. It takes 2 1 day to form a habit. But it takes more than 2 1 day to correct children's bad habits, which requires parents to persevere in the process of correcting children's bad habits. In the face of children's deception, parents should show enough perseverance and not give in to their children.
Parents should not care too much about their children's academic performance. Every parent should treat their children's grades with a normal heart. Learning is the responsibility of students, and learning well is what every student should do. Parents should not be complacent about their children's good grades, or reward her with various materials, which will only give children the illusion that learning is for their parents. Parents should also create a relaxed learning atmosphere for their children, such as discussing problems encountered in learning with their children, reading books with their children, and studying together ... Children doing homework will only give them the illusion of living for their achievements.
6. Let the child know that learning is his own business. Many parents put a lot of thought into their children's study, but it is easy for them to feel that they are studying for their parents. The more parents urge their children to study hard, the easier it is for them to create opportunities to refuse to study and refute their parents.