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You shouldn't spoil boys too much. How should parents educate correctly?
1, let the children understand how the money comes from.

Although parents can provide their children with adequate living security and even wealth, they should not take it for granted. Only by realizing how hard it is to make money can we understand how hard it is for parents behind the whole family life. This is a process of building values. ?

2. Put down your body and play with your children.

It is of far-reaching significance for children to discover what they have learned in rough games (wrestling, throwing high, horseback riding and bullfighting). They learn how to have fun, make noise, observe others and make rules. Especially in the sense of rules, slapstick games sometimes make them very tired and painful. At this time, my father can discuss the rules with them, such as don't hurt each other and when it will end. This kind of personal experience activity is obviously helpful to cultivate the self-control of boys.

Let the boy know that he is a great man from an early age.

Let boys have the understanding of men from an early age, and the role of fathers is enormous. Numerous facts have proved that too much maintenance and anxiety of the mother will reduce the masculinity of the boy; Father's stricter rules and looser constraints will give the boy unparalleled strength and courage, and then promote the boy to grow into an excellent man more quickly. ?

4. A father should be manly.

If the father is timid and lacks the sense of competition and adventurous spirit, the child will also become a passive Nuo Nuo. If dad is particularly timid and afraid of everything, those who are afraid of wolves and tigers always say, don't do this, don't go. These words are particularly easy to form a fixed connection in the child's mind, that is, when he meets many new things, he will say, don't do this, dad is not like this, why should I do this?

Don't force children to live according to your idea.

Many fathers in China like to let their children live according to their own ideas. Strong parents are the stupidest parents. I don't know. The world of children has long been different from ours. If you just ask your children to do this and that according to the way of your world, and control their life choices through threats, children will never have a happy life.