1. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
In modern society, many parents are always confused about educating their children in one way or another. Like everyone else, sometimes I am at a loss, but in any case, parenting is a necessity for all parents in the world. Now I will share with you some of my own methods and experiences in educating children. First, make children happy and cultivate their sense of humor.
Happiness is the premise of family education. Practice has proved that if happiness is lost, no matter how hard parents try, the education of their children will not succeed in the end. Therefore, it is particularly important for children to learn to be happy, to share happiness with others and to create happiness. In our family, there is a lot of laughter and knowledge, such as idioms solitaire, the naming of world capitals and so on. We all educate our children in activities similar to games.
Humor is a kind of speech or behavior that makes people feel happy through language or body language. Children with a sense of humor are usually optimistic, constantly making laughter in their lives, making people around them feel relaxed and happy, and they will also have a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence. So we often do some funny things with our children at home, often play jokes on each other, take the principle of not hurting others and pay attention to manners.
Second, proper supervision, less intervention and more encouragement.
Most children like to have fun. Parental supervision is very important and necessary, but enough is enough and attention should be paid. For example, when children come home from school, we will ask them what they learned today and whether the teacher has assigned homework. Then let the children arrange, master and handle their own time. In the process of children's homework, parents should not be around, don't nag, and don't pretend to be the master. Only when he encounters a problem will he make the necessary instructions and inspiration and think about the problem with his children.
In addition, appreciation education is of great significance to children's growth, so parents should adhere to the principle of giving priority to encouragement, supplemented by criticism, and don't hurt children easily. Our children like reading books, and they have read a lot. Since he was two or three years old, we often praised our children for their love of reading in front of friends and even strangers. In fact, he didn't particularly like reading at that time, but now he really can't live without books! Of course, encouragement should not be blind, especially blind material encouragement. In fact, we seldom use pure material encouragement. More commonly used are: buy books he wants to read, let him participate in activities he really wants to participate in, and so on.
Third, respect children and give them more care.
To educate children, we must first respect them. Children's initial feeling of being respected is obtained from their parents, and the consciousness of respecting others is gradually established through repeated training and education in daily life. For example, if the child is watching TV, we hope he will stop watching it. At this time, we are not giving him an order to specify when the TV must be turned off. Instead, ask him whether to turn off the TV in 10 minutes or 15 minutes. Children generally choose the latter (this is our bottom line). The child also felt the atmosphere of democracy and saw the respect of his parents. He usually turns off the TV or leaves voluntarily.
There are many ways to take care of children, but I think spending as much time as possible with children is also taking care of children. Every day after work, we usually take as much time as possible to accompany our children, read books, play games and participate in various sports activities. This can broaden children's horizons, enrich children's knowledge, cultivate children's sentiment, make children's personality more perfect, and at the same time promote family members' communication and promote family harmony.
About 2.500 words about parenting experience.
As parents for the first time, we were fully prepared for the arrival of the little angel, but when it arrived, we still felt at a loss. All the preparations before were too little and not enough. We are busy and inexperienced every day, but we are happy, tired and happy! I am a stay-at-home mother, and I know the tiredness of taking care of children best. It's hard, but I'm satisfied. Watching children grow up slowly is a luxury happiness! She was very happy when she called her mother for the first time.
1. Cultivate good living habits
Our family basically doesn't buy snacks, and we instill the idea that eating is enough in our daughter from an early age. One thing is still fresh in my memory. Go shopping in the supermarket, just in time for the Spring Festival. There are different colors of candy in the supermarket, which looks very attractive. I thought my daughter would take the initiative to ask, but an unexpected scene happened. She said, "Mom, these sweets are so beautiful. Can I touch them? " No matter what she sees, she won't clamor for it, and it's the same now. She knows not to eat too many snacks.
2. Learning in a Happy Life
Bedtime stories must be a compulsory course for Ma Ma every day. At first, I found that the baby was inattentive, as if he were not listening at all. Sometimes when you are busy, let your daughter play by herself. When I am busy, I often read "Saint Amethyst and Tang Poetry". One day, as soon as I finished reading the previous sentence, she could read the next sentence. To my surprise, she can keep reading the whole story.
3. Let children feel love and be a friendly person.
Every time her husband goes out, her daughter will say, "Dad, drive carefully. I will wait for you at home. "
One day, I took my daughter to play downstairs in the community. It happened that my neighbor's children were there. They run together. When they were running side by side, the neighbor's child accidentally tripped over her daughter, and her knee hurt, which made her cry. At this time, the neighbor's child walked away as if nothing had happened to her. A person who doesn't know how to care about others is lonely and insecure inside. If parents let their children feel maternal love all the time, I firmly believe that children will give us double love in return.
On weekdays, I often tell my daughter to help others, love myself and love others. I will also say "I love you!" " To my children. One day, at lunch, my daughter suddenly said, "Mom, I love you." This is the first time she told me that she was very excited. If I am tired and lie on the sofa, she will cover me with a small quilt and tell my father to keep his voice down and not to wake my mother.
4. Don't play tricks on children
Everyone must be impressed by this picture: during the Chinese New Year, a large group of relatives and friends made fun of their children and deliberately asked him questions. No matter whether his answer is right or wrong, it will become a joke to everyone. The end result: everyone is happy, the children are crying, innocent faces are full of questions, and their hearts are full of anxiety. I strongly object to this practice. Children deserve our respect. They are not adult dolls, let alone people's pastimes.
5. Cultivate children's independence and be an independent and thoughtful person.
Now the living conditions are superior and the children's independence is poor. Many parents are complaining that their children are lazy, play games all day and are not sure about their studies. In fact, they can't blame their children. Most of them are caused by parents. If they come home from work, they can put down their mobile phones, computers and TVs, communicate more with their children and spend more time with them, which is definitely not the result above.
Our home is about 1.5 km from the food market. My daughter started walking with me to buy food when she was one and a half years old. Except for hugging occasionally when she is tired, she basically walks by herself, which exercises her walking endurance. In April this year 19, she traveled to Xiamen. The itinerary is very tight. She leaves the hotel at half past eight every day and returns to the hotel at half past eight in the evening. She walks at least eight or nine hours every day. She persisted for two days and was still full of energy.
She is quite independent in life, taking the initiative to help fold clothes, serving food and delivering meals, and sometimes feeding her brother water.
Please give the child some space to learn to think independently. Parents should never disturb their children when they are absorbed in something, so as not to distract them.
My daughter is slowly beginning to understand, and we will respect her choice: buy clothes and shoes and choose her favorite color; She usually doesn't draw according to the original, which I think is a good thing. She should have her own aesthetics. I was not forced to go to an interest class. I'm really interested in letting her participate, respecting her meaning and not adding pressure to her study, at least now is not the time. I just hope she is healthy and safe, and can always be herself and do what she likes. This is a mother's expectation for her daughter's life!
3. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
As a child, he cares about him the most and knows him better than his parents. Children are still children after all, and it is their nature to be curious and playful. As a parent, I will treat my child as a friend, communicate with him often, find her bright spot, praise her and give positive guidance. Parents should be good at discovering the bright spots of their children. Once I listened to a lecture in kindergarten, the lecturer at that time said: if you say he can do it, he can do it; If you say he can't, he can't. So we must firmly believe that our children are the best, and we can't just deny our children. Affirm him, encourage her, guide her, support her and give her confidence, which will help strengthen children's trust in their parents. 4. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
Six years ago, with a beautiful vision, we welcomed a little angel-a chubby daughter, who should be carefully guarded in this life. In the past six years, with surprise and relief, we watched our children grow up day by day and become a positive, optimistic, healthy and happy child. For children's education, I have been making progress in groping, learning from the experience of my predecessors and combining the characteristics of my children. After her daughter went to kindergarten, she thrived under the careful cultivation of teachers. Her every progress makes us parents feel proud and proud. I mainly have the following three experiences. Pay equal attention to appreciation and criticism. Today, when appreciation education is strongly advocated, the word criticism seems to have become synonymous with parents' rudeness. Many times, parents deliberately ignore their children's "small" mistakes in order to "appreciate" their children. These sweet-talking children can't stand the criticism of "indifference". It is true that appreciating children is a means to cultivate children's self-confidence. Numerous parenting practices have made us understand the truth that "if you love children, you must know how to appreciate them", and the effect of encouragement and praise is far better than reprimanding and beating. However, what my daughter said when she came home one day made me understand that appreciation is as important as criticism. Before going to bed at night, my daughter didn't wait for me to tell a story in bed as usual, listening to the footsteps coming and going in the room. I can't sit still in the study any longer. When I found my daughter, she was absorbed in washing her face and feet for the flowers on the balcony. As I called her to stop, I stared at her with a embarrassed face, and my daughter looked up at her mother who was out of control with tears. Suddenly my daughter came up to me, hugged me and murmured, "I know my mother criticized me for my own good." I don't blame you. I'll give you another chance. You can't be angry next time. " My heart suddenly felt warm, and my daughter could accept and understand my anger. "The teacher said that mom and dad criticized us because they loved us. When we grow up, loving mom and dad just doesn't talk back. "
Happy birthday wishes. For parents, loving children is a matter of course, which is extremely simple, but it is difficult to know how to love children. On a special birthday, making a meaningful wish is of special significance to children. On our daughter's first birthday, we hope that the child can learn to walk smoothly and fall in love with it. The daughter blinked her bright eyes and smiled and "agreed". After a year of training, our mother and daughter went to Xiaobaishan hand in hand and hummed together, which was the happiest time. On my daughter's second birthday, I hope her children can learn to eat, drink, dress and sleep independently and get ready for kindergarten. My daughter shook her chubby little hand and said "OK" with a smile. Eight months later, there was a fat girl in Class 8, and the teacher always said, "Don't look at the little guy who is the youngest and has strong self-care ability." On our daughter's third birthday, we hope her children will start to learn dance, cultivate a sense of music, exercise and strengthen their physique. The daughter nodded and said "yes" with a smile. The little face is redder every day. At the end of the semester, my daughter got the certificate of studying, and she was very happy. On my daughter's fourth birthday, we want her children to start learning painting. Before I finished talking about the benefits of learning to draw, my daughter seriously joined our discussion. "I want to learn martial arts and stand like a pine." A year later, the child's five-step boxing and long boxing are powerful; On our daughter's fifth birthday, we hope that the child will start sleeping alone at night and give her mother back to her father. My daughter cocked her head and thought, "OK, but let's make Tuesday her mother's baby day, so that her mother won't miss me." This year, on our daughter's sixth birthday, we are looking forward to …
Our expectations for children: physical and mental health, good habits and wide interests; Physical and mental health is the foundation of a child's life happiness; Good habits are the guarantee of a lifetime of happiness; A wide range of interests is the source of a lifetime of happiness.
5. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
Parents are children's teachers, so parents should pay attention to the details of their children's daily life, set an example and make a good start. Let me talk about my parenting experience: accompany my children to study and create an atmosphere for them to study. Don't judge teachers and others in front of children, learn and exchange children's educational methods and experiences with other children's parents, and be a caring and tolerant parent.
Children will experience many "critical moments" and are not as carefree as we think. We should not only help the child through this period, but also help her digest and understand the emotions of fear, anger, disappointment, embarrassment and sadness. We should first listen to the child, determine her feelings, and then act as strategists, so that the child will learn to communicate with others in difficulties and be more independent.
Usually, when children do things, I pay attention to let them develop all kinds of good habits. For example, at home, I always take my children to the bathroom to wash their hands before eating or eating fruit. Don't watch TV while eating, don't joke. I tell my children to concentrate on whatever they do. At home, children know that they should wash their hands with water after going to the toilet, put their shoes on the ground neatly before going to bed, and put them on after getting up.
Reading can open children's wisdom and enrich their spiritual world. I bought many books for my children when they were young (cloth books, unbreakable books, pop-up book, wall charts and various picture books). When the child can sit for six months, we start reading together. After we were two years old, we went to the children's library almost every weekend. She likes to choose a lot of books and always "returns with a full load". In this way, children's interest in reading is gradually cultivated. Reading can cultivate children's language ability and cognitive level, and can also cultivate children's good habits and personality. Parent-child reading can make my children and I have more common language, better understand them, enhance the parent-child relationship between us and reduce my direct preaching to children. But to educate children through reading. Of course, this is an ongoing process.
Of course, educating children requires the concerted efforts of the whole family, Qi Xin and Qi Xin, and at the same time, we should also cooperate with kindergarten teachers to realize co-education in their homes and make children develop better in all aspects.
I am a stay-at-home mom. Although the process of raising children is hard and confusing, it is more joy and happiness. I enjoyed growing up with my children. Children are a gift from heaven. The above is just my personal shallow parenting experience.
6. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
Time flies, time flies, and school will start in a blink of an eye. Is the 30-day holiday short? This holiday is short and full. Come and feel my experience. First of all, as parents, we should set an example and set an example for our children. In my spare time during the holidays, I will let my children go to work with me, feel my mother's work, and do housework with me at home, so that my children can feel the hardship of life, feel naked, talk about their parents' efforts, and let them learn to be grateful and know how to take responsibility.
Secondly, let children know that perseverance is the only way to gain something. In July, he participated in the national "Voice of the Central" competition and won the second prize. In August, I took the national guzheng level 2 exam, which comes from your persistence every day. I go to guzheng class to practice my piano every day after school. This persistence has become a habit in your life. Because the training class is far from home, considering the safety of children, I insist on picking up and dropping off every day until the training class is on holiday. Although it is hard to run around, I am also very pleased to see the results of my children's efforts. Every choice of my child is inseparable from the guidance and support of parents!
Finally, I think it is necessary to communicate with children more, listen carefully to understand their needs and listen to their ideas, which not only exercises their expression ability but also enhances their parent-child feelings, and at the same time gives them appropriate affirmation and encouragement to help them establish correct life values and let them grow up healthily and happily.
7. Parenting experience: about 500 words. Chapter VII
On the issue of educating children, every parent is more or less confused. The advantages and disadvantages of each child are different, depending on whether you know your child well or not. Next, let me talk about my parenting experience. 1. Adequate sleep is the basic condition for children's growth and healthy growth. So I stipulate that children must go to bed before 9 o'clock every night. You must get up at half past six in the morning. Let children have a good schedule.
2. Go home from school every day and arrange your own homework time. Parents should not watch TV while their children are doing their homework, so as not to distract their children's attention, and read books by themselves to create a good learning environment for their children. After finishing your homework every day, you must review what you learned that day and consolidate it.
3. Learn to communicate with children. Every night, I have to talk to my children about what's interesting in kindergarten and what's new in my mother's unit. Communication can improve children's expressive ability and ability to distinguish right from wrong.
I often take my children to the bookstore to buy books, so that he can understand the importance of knowledge. Children sometimes ask questions that adults can't answer, such as: Why do stars blink? Is there water on Mercury? Let him find the answer in the book, and the child is very happy. This will cultivate his habit of loving learning and asking questions from an early age.
Parents must resolutely say "no" to the unreasonable demands made by children. Can't have the slightest softhearted. No matter how young a child is, he will observe his words and deeds. If you take a step back, they will step forward. Next time, it will not be easy.
6. Respect children and don't force them to do things they don't want to do. Don't criticize children in front of others.
7. In family education, parents should stick to the same view.
8. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
Raising children is not only a burden, but also a responsibility and a pleasure. In family education, parents are not only the children's teachers, but also the first objects for children to imitate. Therefore, parents' education is particularly important. The following are my experiences in the process of raising children: First, let children have regular schedules.
Adequate sleep is especially important for children's growth and development. It is good for children to establish regular work and rest habits from an early age. Go to bed early and get up early every day, so that children can have a good mental state and return to study on time to receive the teacher's education, which will make their study more efficient and use emotional control more.
Second, children should be encouraged to do their own thing.
For what children can do, we should give timely guidance, from simple to complex, and gradually mobilize the positive polarity and initiative of both hands. After the work is completed, we should praise and encourage them in time, so that she can be affirmed in her work and cultivate her independence and tenacious will. Don't be a parent who does everything, let her get used to dependence.
Third, cultivate children's good interest in learning.
Especially the habit of reading and doing problems independently. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. Because of the fast pace of work, I sometimes take my work home to do it. I sometimes ask my children to come with me and show her how I work. Over time, she will also bring a small picture book or picture book, sit quietly next to me, write and draw, and communicate with me when she meets interesting or incomprehensible places, and slowly cultivate her learning concentration. In addition, the common phenomenon of modern parents is that it is difficult to put down their mobile phones to accompany their children. We should set an example by setting aside at least one hour every day to put down our mobile phones as time for quality exclusive children.
Fourth, establish a correct outlook on life, values and awareness of rules.
It is said that "three years old is eighty". Whether a child can have a positive life depends on the ideas and consciousness instilled from childhood. I like to analyze children with examples found in daily life, listen to their views, correct wrong views and cognition, and set an example. Also remind them to abide by the rules at any time, be strict with themselves and be lenient with others. At the same time, as parents, we should also pay great attention to our lifestyle and not bring negative effects to our children.
Fifth, pay attention to parent-child communication. Children's cognitive thinking has not been fully established. Parents should pay special attention to actively discovering children's thoughts, communicate patiently and effectively, and encourage children to open their hearts to their parents as much as possible, which is more conducive to solving troubles and troubles.
In the process of children's growth, parents are busy and happy, but they cannot do without the cooperation of teachers. I am very grateful to the kindergarten for giving me this opportunity to share my parenting experience. I hope that with the joint efforts of home and school, I can help my children grow up healthily and happily!
9. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
It's embarrassing to say, because of the particularity of work, sometimes I can't control my time after work and want to be lazy, so my baby's study has been thrown to the tutor since the first grade. However, as children enter the third grade, we gradually find that children have various problems, so since last month, we have also made up our minds to take over their studies. So we may not have much say in the baby's education, but I hope to cultivate the baby in the next few aspects: First, cultivate children's good habits.
Good habits will benefit you for life. Try to cultivate children's learning consciousness, initiative and independence, let them know that learning is their own business, gradually make this habit a part of his life, and gradually improve the learning effect and quality. Of course, good habits include many other aspects, such as daily life, manners, social interaction and so on.
Second, encourage children more and criticize less.
Give priority to encouragement, supplemented by criticism. A word of encouragement may make children grow up in the sunshine all their lives, and a word of attack may make children lose confidence in life. Although sometimes the temper comes up and we can't control ourselves, we hope that we can be good at discovering the advantages and progress of our children in the future and praise them. Every child has his own bright spot. Don't blindly compare the shortcomings of your child with the advantages of other children, which will hurt your child's self-esteem.
Third, make friends with children.
Children are also independent individuals and have their own ideas and opinions. Our parents should listen carefully and consider their ideas and demands, restrain their impatience, and should not impose their ideas on their children. This kind of friendly communication not only respects children, but also makes children feel that their parents are not superior, but amiable and lovely friends.
Fourth, cultivate correct three views.
Although academic performance is very important, it is also extremely important to establish correct values, world outlook and outlook on life. Every child has his own three views, which are gradually forming from small to large. Shaping the correct three views requires children's own efforts and the influence of external positive factors, especially the positive energy from parents and teachers. Let children know where their values are, what to do and what not to do.
These are my immature ideas. Although the idea is good, in practice, sometimes we just can't bear to lose our temper with our children. In fact, the children don't want to work hard, and they look at his sleeping face and blame themselves infinitely. Alas, the education of children is really a long way to go, and I will go up and down. I hope we can grow up with our children.
10. Parenting experience is about 500 words.
How time flies! In a blink of an eye, Ye Ye has become a child in the middle class of preschool education center, and the change is remarkable. As a parent, I don't ask my child to do anything, but I must cultivate his interest in things. I also look forward to his happy and healthy growth in such an environment. The following are some experiences I have gained in my daily life: First, cultivate his simple self-care potential.
Before the child goes to school, I let him learn to wear simple clothes, socks and shoes slowly. Eat by yourself, brush your teeth and wash your face by yourself. If he says "I dress myself, I eat myself, I cook myself", you should even let him try. If he doesn't want to, you can interest him in a pleasant way. Although he may be wearing funny clothes or eating all over the table with his shoes turned upside down, his parents should not joke, but say, "You are great." Instead, encourage him.
Second, cultivate his reading potential.
I have been telling him stories intentionally or unintentionally since he was young. Although he didn't quite understand it many times, he kept his head straight and listened with relish. I knew he was interested. When he grew up, I chose some vivid and reasonable stories, nursery rhymes, idiom stories and three famous books for him. Let him think with a small brain, answer simple questions, or describe stories in general, which not only stimulates his imagination, but also improves his memory, cultivates his interest, and understands what kind of child he should be, so at this moment I insist on telling him a story every night.
Third, cultivate his curiosity.
All I can think about at the moment is why. The main reason is that he wants to know a little bit about the principle of things to satisfy his curiosity, so he must not be perfunctory, that is, he is irresponsible to him, but he should try to find an answer for him, even if he doesn't understand, he should ask others or teachers.
I try to take him to play when I am free. This year's World Expo, aquarium management, zoo, or walking in the park, mainly want him to increase his knowledge, breathe fresh air, let him know the customs of various countries, and let him know all kinds of creatures in the sea.
Fourth, cultivate his confidence.
Most of the time, we can't measure and compare with adults' practices, accusing him of doing something bad, doing something wrong, or even trying to make him perfect for a little thing, which has hit his young mind and made him lose confidence in everything and feel that he can't do anything well and needs criticism. Give proper praise, then point out the shortcomings, and do it better next time. Let him not be afraid and be more confident.
These are some experiences I have accumulated in my daily life. Of course, they may not be very good, but they are in place. I hope to communicate with more parents and learn better parenting knowledge. Teach our little baby better, more sensible and healthier.