During the summer vacation, children can be educated by learning to describe rather than preach, having a good conversation with children, teaching children to learn self-control, setting correct goals and maintaining good family harmony, as follows:

1, learn to describe rather than preach.

Parents who have had similar experiences will find that preaching may not bring good results in most realistic situations. Children either ignore it or fight it. Therefore, when you want to educate your children, you must first learn to simply describe what you see.

2. Have a good talk with your children.

Simple, clear and direct expressions will be more effective than accusations, orders, threats and other expressions, because even young children can understand the key points you express and give verbal or behavioral responses.

Of course, this does not mean that the description you see is some magical language that can immediately stop children's bad behavior. This is just an important part of effective communication with children.

3. Teach children to learn self-control.

Children with high self-control are more focused, more persistent in completing difficult tasks, and can control their improper or impulsive behavior. They are more likely to find jobs and get stable jobs as adults, and they spend 40% less time unemployed than those children with poor self-control.

4. Set the right goals.

Parental education is very important for children's growth, but it doesn't mean that parents teach their children cultural knowledge by hand, because most parents can't, but it should be reflected in the cultivation of children's world outlook, outlook on life and values, so that children can set correct goals from an early age, develop good living and study habits, and try their best to create conditions suitable for their growth.

5. Maintain good family harmony.

Research shows that children who grow up in quarrels and contradictions are far less successful than children with harmonious families, regardless of whether their parents are divorced or not. After parents divorce, if parents who have no custody can visit their children in a peaceful way, then the children will recover better. If contradictions intensify during the visit, the more times they contact their parents, the worse their psychological state will be.