Adult dialogue
Don't argue with children when facing their problems. Let things cool down, and then find a suitable time to have an in-depth dialogue with them in an adult way.
Use positive words
When communicating with children, avoid using such words as "you can't do anything" and try to express it in such a way as "this may be better". This will make it easier for children to accept your suggestions.
Play games to improve communication
Playing their favorite games with children can enhance communication in a relaxed atmosphere. As time goes on, your relationship with your children will become more harmonious.