1: Indulge and spoil: In the past, I talked a lot about how my man "hurts" his children. Many bloggers envy children having a good father and I have a good husband! In fact, the real validity period, the difficulties inside are also a long story! It is true that my husband loves children. If he loves them too much, he will indulge them! The child does not compromise, even if it is a wrong view, the husband has no principle to meet the requirements and allow the child to make mistakes. This is the last thing I can tolerate!
2. Lack of patience with children: In Where's Dad Going, did you find that Cindy was very emotional at first and kept crying? But later, we also found that her performance was brilliant, helpful and caring for her brothers and sisters. But if Cindy happens to us, will we just ignore her, make her cry and have no patience to enlighten her?
3. Careless parenting: Men love children in their hearts, but carelessness will bring security risks! Why are women so cautious? This is the best education and warning given by life! As long as there is a child, no matter how careless a woman is, she will give priority to the child and can't sleep at night, because that life was earned by her hard pregnancy in October, and the heartbreaking pain of the production experience squeezed him out of her body! Pregnant in October, Fang En, these experiences have given women a sensitive mind and care for their children! On the other hand, men have never experienced this kind of pain, let alone the hardship of pregnancy and the pain of parenting. These experiences have never been experienced by men, so no woman pays meticulous attention to parenting!
4. Lazy parenting: Men are afraid that their children will get into trouble, as long as they don't cry or make trouble, they will give whatever they want except the moon and stars in the sky! My man is like this, let him take care of the children at home for a day, and the girl is either sick or a pile of toys. Junk food, drinks, cold drinks and toys can be drunk by children, as long as the girl doesn't make trouble or cry to find me! My man has never told his children a bedtime story, let alone guided by a storyline.
5. Lack of communication: Husband is often away from home. Although he loves his children very much and can't bear to say anything to them, it is difficult for them to communicate with him. My little girl may think that her father was very funny when he was young, and there is no reason to be satisfied and spoiled. When the child grows up, she will find it difficult for her father to communicate, and some things are unwilling to tell him! Now that the boy is older, he never reaches out and asks his husband for a penny! In addition to watching the news broadcast, father and son have a common topic, and things about their son's school are rarely mentioned to him! It is not difficult to see from here that the father's cutting and nurturing will bring more or less influence to the child's mentality!
6. Hands-off parenting: It is not difficult to see the performance of Dad in Where is Dad? It is believed that all kinds of bad States brought by dad's parenting are caused by letting go of parenting. Father's participation in family parenting is too little, which will bring different effects to children. If dads take more time to educate their children, give them more parent-child time, go out with their children and give them some kind reminders of life, I believe many children will become more sunny! Don't think that children should be educated by their mothers at birth, especially boys. Without the care and education of parents, men's masculinity will be lost!
I believe that many families will have the above-mentioned parenting methods more or less. Don't think that giving a child a complete home is enough, let alone giving him a chance to have plenty of food and clothing, he should be grateful and satisfied. Apart from the material foundation, the most important thing is to give children a happy family. There is deep love between mom and dad, and it is most important to give children the best education and guidance!