Appreciation education and frustration education are both important educational methods that affect students' growth and play an indispensable role in the process of students' growth. Although there are differences in methods and effects, on the whole, the two educational methods have their own advantages and can help students achieve their own growth.

Appreciation education

Appreciation education can directly stimulate students' enthusiasm and creativity, enhance students' self-esteem and self-confidence, increase students' communication with parents, teachers and classmates, and form positive and healthy interpersonal relationships and good interpersonal relationships.

The problem of appreciation education

If we give rewards and praise blindly and ignore students' problems and shortcomings, we will lose the role of effectively mobilizing students' motivation, and therefore lack the motivation for self-improvement, thus losing the opportunity for further improvement.

frustration education

Frustration education can make students persevere in the face of setbacks and increase their sense of responsibility and responsibility. On the road of students' life, when facing hardships and setbacks, frustration education can help students better adjust their mentality, face difficulties better, give full play to their potential and ability, and finally realize the all-round development and growth of individuals.

The problem of frustration education

Excessive frustration education may also bring negative effects to students. For example, for those challenging and difficult students, without timely guidance and encouragement, they will feel "unable to get out of the predicament" and form a negative and low-confidence attitude.

The balance of educational methods

Parents and teachers need to adopt different education methods according to the specific situation, so that students can find a balance between adequate appreciation and frustration, so as to achieve more comprehensive and quality growth.