I am 36 years old and my husband is 38 years old. After the communication, my husband has been pushing for a divorce because of my poor communication with him. I plan to deal with it in these two days. When you get married, the bride price is200,000. On the wedding day, because the man didn't know how to greet my parents, I always wanted to understand my husband, but I felt very struggling and painful in the process of being wronged.
I cried all the time on the phone. In the process of getting along, my husband beat me up because of some minor contradictions. My husband can't bear to let me fight back. Because they get along with each other at different frequencies, their love for each other is both a burden and a harm, so I know that I have a problem, my emotional intelligence is not high enough, I don't know men, and I don't know my husband.
My husband's character is the kind of person who doesn't say what he thinks, but keeps it in his heart. I don't know how to communicate with him. I don't think my husband knows himself, and my husband thinks I don't know myself. So when they were together, they did not establish a happy and comfortable mode of getting along. I really hope to learn to be self-reliant, learn to communicate comfortably, and learn to communicate with each other truly.
Consultation process: before consultation 1: My husband called to ask if the Civil Affairs Bureau was at work and wanted to divorce me.
Pre-consultation 2: I am worried that my husband will file for divorce.
1 in consultation: I began to reflect on my own problems.
Consultation 2: I have a deep consciousness.
Consultation 3: guide customers to know what their behavior will make their husband's attitude better.
Consultation 4: Make sure that the husband will not mention divorce.
Consultation 5: My husband is influenced by me and is changing the way of communication.
Consultation 7: My husband will feel guilty if he says it in front of relatives.
After consultation, 1: I recognize that I am now in a high-profile recovery and affirm our service.
After consultation 2: I think my husband is a man worthy of being entrusted for life.
After consultation 3: My husband felt my change.
After consultation 4: I can understand my husband's needs now.
Post-consultation 5: I can feel the charm of consultation
After consultation 6: I can feel that my husband loves himself from the details.
After consultation 7: I feel ashamed and guilty compared with my husband's performance of loving myself.
After consultation 8: I have a new thinking about marriage.
After consulting 9: completely change, gorgeous turn.
With the help of my love-burning emotional tutor, my relationship with my husband eased a little after a week, and my husband gave up the idea of divorce. My husband also began to realize his own problems, took the initiative to show concern for me and asked for sex life. Self-awareness has been greatly improved, and the most important thing is that I have grown up a lot, and my cognition and thinking have completely changed. Therefore, if the husband forcibly divorces, as long as the right method is found, the husband's divorce heart can be saved.