After marriage, two people, a son and a daughter, not only drew a clear line on property, but also gave custody of their children to each other. Finally, their son Wang Zihao was awarded to Wang and their daughter Wang Zishan was awarded to Ma Rong.
Four years have passed, Wang's career has steadily improved, and Ma Rong has gradually stepped out of the days when everyone shouted to hide in Tibet. From their social platforms, it is not difficult to find that the education of their children after marriage has also become polarized.
Wang is a rich son.
As can be seen from the photos, Wang, his son, is handsome and handsome, and he is drifting away from his father? Grounding gas? Jean became a big boy.
In daily life, Wang attaches great importance to children's education. Although his work has been getting busier and busier in recent years, he will definitely go home to accompany his son every exam.
Xiaokang, his adopted son is rich, isn't he? Local style? Rich, but mentally rich, he hopes that his son can have his own hobbies. His son likes the violin, so he will practice with him.
The son of a single-parent family is full of emotions under the careful cultivation of his father. The king lives alone and takes care of each other. When Wang was busy working outside, he called his father to remind him not to be too busy.
Seeing this versatile and filial son, netizens have left messages to feel gratified for Wang. Instead of keeping a good wife, they raised a good son.
Ma's daughter
After reading Wang, I enriched my son's spirit and compared Ma Rong's material enrichment for my daughter. The gap is clear at a glance.
After the divorce, Ma Rong was silent for some time. In order to bring goods for life, careful netizens found that when she took her daughter, she dressed her daughter like a celebrity and dressed in luxury and high-profile, which made people worry about whether she would develop at a young age. Vanity? .
And it's hard to say whether bringing her daughter to the event with high profile will affect her social life. As a mother, she should consider her daughter's psychological growth. If she is treated differently by other children at school, isn't it also a kind of harm to the weak children?
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There is a big gap between children raised by single parents. Don't use single parents as an excuse for education.
Today, when material life is getting better and better, people's emotional desires are also expanding. What is more realistic behind the high divorce rate is the education of children.
Some parents are emotionally uncomfortable with divorce, but there is no lack of education for their children. Some parents regard single-parent families as an excuse for their educational failure and ignore their children's growth.
Divorce is only a couple's emotional failure, not an excuse to ignore their children's education. Ma Rong and Wang both love their children deeply, but they have taken two directions in post-divorce education, which also reminds ordinary divorced families that single-parent children need correct education guidance more:
First of all, clarify the emotional problems of parents. Children will grow up one day. Divorce must be confessed to them, so that children will suddenly find it more painful.
Secondly, parents are not ashamed of their children when they divorce. Many couples blindly compensate their children in order not to divorce or after divorce, but they don't know that too much material compensation can easily make their children vain, blindly ask their parents for it, and feel inferior in the face of outsiders' lack of mom and dad.
The most important thing is the education of children. Spiritual enrichment is the wealth of a child's life. As a single parent, we should give our children more care and companionship, be both a father and a mother, let them feel the warmth of the family and keep an optimistic and cheerful attitude. Care about children's study life, understand children's personality development, guide them in time, and it is best to attend interest classes to satisfy the lack of love in small groups.
Finally, I hope that parents who are not in harmony or have divorced will seriously talk to their children and enter his spiritual world to minimize the harm caused by their parents' divorce.