Most dormitory contradictions can be attributed to the collision of different concepts. People may have conflicts because of different views, or they may be estranged because of the gap between the rich and the poor, and they don't like each other's way of life.
When contradictions occur, we must first accept the differences between people, and seeking common ground while reserving differences is the normal state of life. You can gently persuade them to make appropriate changes, but you can't laugh at or satirize them. Learn to use euphemism and kindly remind. Under normal circumstances, in friendly and inclusive communication, the friction between roommates will not be further upgraded and intensified.
2. Learn to put yourself in others' shoes and fully consider others' feelings.
The fuse of interpersonal disharmony in dormitory may also be personal bad living habits. In dormitories where people live in groups, poor personal hygiene not only affects the sanitary conditions of dormitories, but also greatly reduces the happiness of life. Dormitory space is usually very small, and one person's untidiness often affects the whole dormitory. At the same time, different work and rest habits will also produce friction. Some people are used to going to bed early, while others can stay up until after midnight, disturbing the people.
In a collective environment like dormitory, it should be the basic principle of collective life not to act according to one's own preferences and not to let one's actions affect others. Do as you would be done by. To create a harmonious dormitory atmosphere, it is better to put yourself in others' shoes. Change your behavior, requirements and expectations, and maybe the other person will realize his own shortcomings because of your change.
Learn to say "no" and take care of your feelings.
Sometimes, there are people in a dormitory who take the help of others for granted and solve their own problems by roommates. If you are too lazy to go out, you will let your roommate bring food every day and be very picky about the food; If you don't want to do your homework, ask your roommate to help you hand it in; When I ran out of daily necessities, I confidently used my roommate's and didn't buy a new one for several days. In the face of unreasonable demands from roommates, you should follow your heart and learn to refuse.