Without company, you can't understand your child's mind. Without understanding the child's mind, there is no way to find the child's spiritual needs and provide good services for the child's growth.
At the parent-teacher meeting, Wu Manman shared a successful case because of companionship. She said: Her English is very poor. Her mother was very upset, so she made an agreement with her daughter to learn English together. From the beginning of this semester, they recited words, texts and grammar together ... In this way, their mother-daughter relationship deepened and their children's English scores improved by more than 20 points. The child's face shows the joy of success, and the mother is also happy for the improvement of her child's grades.
As parents, we must not understand companionship as death, which will lead to children's rebellion, nor can we understand companionship as arranged, which can only hinder children's self-growth, and we can't understand companionship as cultural class counseling. You can't direct all his courses. Companionship is to provide temperature and energy for children's spiritual space.
Companionship is not always together, mainly reflected in the companionship of the soul, so that the other party feels that you are by his side. When he needs you, you can always appear. When he doesn't need you, you can hide in his heart. Let him feel solid. Accompanying pays attention to the process, and all educational results are by-products of companionship. The final difference in academic qualifications is actually caused by the gap in the process of companionship.
Accompanying promotes children's self-growth. Only companionship can understand children's hearts, open children's hearts, enter children's hearts, and love children in the way they like, not in the way you like. Only in this way can companionship generate great spiritual energy and realize self-growth.
Companionship can also promote the self-growth of peers. Everyone needs company. You accompany the child, and the child is with you. Children grow up with your company, and you grow up with your children. In fact, the actual performance of each child is a reflection of the shadow on the parents. Parents should accompany their children to understand themselves, constantly improve and improve themselves, and let themselves become role models in their children's hearts and grow up with them.