Family education parents speak 1 Dear teachers and parents,
Hello!
Thank you very much for giving me this opportunity. I feel very honored to discuss the issue of children's growth education with you. I am Xiong Wenjun's mother. First of all, on behalf of all parents, please allow me to express my heartfelt thanks to the teachers who have worked hard to train our children. It is precisely because of your careful care and careful teaching that children will grow up healthily and our parents can work with peace of mind.
I am an ordinary teacher. I have been engaged in education for more than ten years and organized many parent-teacher conferences. Today, I am sitting here as a parent of a child, and I really realize what "being poor means thinking about change". In fact, educating children is a very hard process, but it is full of happiness and sweetness. Now I will talk about children's family education according to my experience in work and my feelings in life. Very superficial, I hope to help you and live up to our teacher Teng's expectations.
True education is the crystallization of love and wisdom. In all industries in the world, the profession of parents is the most needed but the most lacking. Naturally, you are qualified to be a parent, but you need to work hard to be a competent parent. During my years as a teacher, parents often told me, "Miss Guo, our children are naughty at home, and nothing can be said. What the teacher said will be more useful than us. Please help me educate him more ... "Yes, it is our teacher's bounden duty to educate children, and we are duty-bound, but it is not enough to rely on teachers and schools for children's education. Parents can't push all their children's education to schools and teachers like kicking a ball. As parents, we are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. Teachers can retire, and my parents say I'm going to take a back seat, so I won't be a parent, okay? I'm afraid that won't do. So as parents and children don't want to listen to you, you must first find the reason from yourself. "Advice in the most unpleasant times" is often empty and children don't like it. Then why don't we just try to turn unpleasant words into pleasant ones that we love and want to hear? On my child's eighth birthday, I gave him a special gift, not beautiful sneakers or his favorite toys, but the child was very moved when he received the gift. That is an article I wrote for my children. I want to share with you here: (because of the time, I look at several key points) to my son-his eighth birthday.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, it's the season when the river is blooming and gardenias are fragrant. Son, in this sweet, happy, warm, fresh and pleasant season, my mother wishes you a happy birthday and healthy growth!
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Son, mom has always wanted to give you a special gift on your birthday. What can I send? Buy a favorite gift? But even the best things are out of date. If you lose them, one day you will forget them and throw them away. Until that day, my mother won you a birthday present at the school moral education meeting. This is a teacher who has been engaged in moral education for many years. When talking about her feelings, she was deeply inspired, so my mother arranged it into six sentences as a gift for you, hoping it can accompany you to grow up healthily. I have explained these six sentences in simple language and stories, so that the children can understand. )
Son, the first thing your mother wants to send you is: "No matter when or under what circumstances, you must insist on doing one thing to the end." ……
Son, the second sentence your mother wants to send you is: "Be grateful and honor your parents." ……
Son, the third sentence your mother gave you was: "No matter who you say it to, you must work hard." ……
Son: "No matter how busy you are at that time, you should put the used things back." This is the fourth sentence my mother gave you. ……
"Write carefully" is the fifth sentence my mother gave you. ……
Son, the sixth sentence your mother gave you was: "Learn to reflect on yourself from your mistakes." ……
Son, mom knows you may not like this gift today, but you will prefer a pair of beautiful sports shoes or a remote-controlled car that mom has been waiting for a long time. Mom can understand, that's because you don't understand yet. But my mother still hopes that you will always keep my gift in mind, be strict with yourself and be a strong, optimistic, upright, honest and kind person!
This gift cost me nothing, but it took me a lot of thought. I remember that the child accepted my gift with tears in his eyes. How nice it is to express boring preaching in a different way, so that children are willing to accept it, and your good intentions can also make children feel it!
Secondly, establish your own authority and be a parent who lets your children admire you from the bottom of your heart. The authority of parents in front of their children can be established not only by their innate rights, but also by shouting "I am your father" and "I am your mother" to their children, not to mention beating them out with sticks and slaps. If parents don't like reading, watching TV or playing mahjong after work every day, but ask their children to "study hard", it will be difficult for them to listen to their parents' instructions. I left my leisure time to my children since they were sensible, and I studied, studied, discussed and grew up with them. I ask my children to form the habit of reading, and I love reading myself. I ordered some books for myself. When the children do their homework, I read quietly beside them, creating a good learning atmosphere for them. When I have time, I will read with my children. We often choose an article we like, read it to the other party, then tell the reason why we like it, and then let the other party comment. Or recommend an article you like to the other party to enjoy, and then talk about your own views. I believe that with your participation, children will love reading. The key point is that in this process, children will feel that my parents have as much knowledge as their teachers. You can't make him admire you at this time. Learning to write a composition is boring for most children, even a little scary. It can be said that I have spent a lot of energy and effort in guiding children to write compositions. The most important thing is to make the child obey you first, and then he will listen to you. I started writing articles for children (like the article I just shared with you), from life, the truth of being a man to the ideal of life. As long as I have time, I will write him a paragraph or an article, so that he can feel our love and expectation in the process of reading, and at the same time let him follow my example. With this example, children gradually became interested in writing and were no longer afraid. On holidays, we take our children into nature, consciously or unconsciously guide him to observe, let him speak first, and then write down what he said when he gets home. I will carefully read every child's composition, first find his bright spot, a good word and a beautiful sentence, and I will praise him and give him confidence without stint. Then write a message from my mother at the back of the composition, gently point out his shortcomings and put forward his own suggestions. Not only that, I often write compositions with my children and take part in composition competitions together. After my composition is finished, I will ask my child to help me revise it and let him comment. It is a learning process for children to revise your composition, and it is also a process for children to know you and understand you. Children are the happiest people after winning the prize for composition. Maybe you will say, of course you can be a teacher, but it's not. I think any parent can do it as long as you have the heart. Of course, you will lose a lot of your time by doing so. Only when you personally feel the change of your child will you feel the happiness after paying. Now I don't have to worry about my child's composition. After each composition, the child will actively invite me to comment on his composition. I think that's his trust and affirmation to me.
Third, as parents, we should know that if we love our children, we should understand them more. Growth is always a child's own business. We should know how to let go, give children independent space and cultivate their autonomy. Although the child is small, he has an independent personality and is also one of the family members. In order to make my son feel the hardship of his parents, increase his sense of family responsibility, make him cherish life more and learn to care for his relatives around him, my father and I will guide him to work at home this summer. As the saying goes, "I don't know how expensive rice is if I don't take charge." We hope to guide him to arrange his income and expenditure reasonably and cultivate his planning and basic management ability. Share some housework properly, such as cooking simple meals, cleaning and washing small clothes. Let him realize that it is not easy for his parents to be in charge; At the same time, let him do what he can on behalf of our family, such as paying utilities, visiting relatives and friends, going out to play and asking him to buy tickets, and so on. Exercise his social skills, make him feel valued like an adult, understand what adults usually worry about, and gradually learn to share their worries for adults. Of course, we adults will work harder than usual in the process of children being masters of the country. Let children be masters, not just give up, but educate them in time and guide them correctly. When the children were in charge, our family of three went to Chengdu to play, and we gave all the money for the trip to the children. During the whole trip, we gave all the tickets, hotels, meals, directions and scenic spots to the children. We just followed him, including buying tickets at the automatic ticket vending machine when taking the subway, all of which were tried by the children themselves. From the beginning of letting children be masters, I deeply realized that our children are really capable. As long as we are willing to give him a chance, trust him and support him, even the most difficult things, he can and will do well.
Fourth, we should treat children's academic performance correctly. It is a common saying in China that iron cannot be turned into steel, but we also know that it takes time and methods to turn iron into steel. What we need to do is to study how to turn iron into steel. The exam is only to test whether the child has really mastered what he has learned in a period of time. So after every exam, I usually look at his mistakes first, then find out the reasons for the mistakes, and then find a few similar topics to do with him.
Fifth, leave more time for your family, go out to play less, and run your own family with your heart. Create a harmonious and warm family environment for children. "A child is like a fish. If the water of the family and parents is unclear, the fish can't live. " At the same time, you should leave more time for your children. I have no time to spend with my children, but I just don't love them. If you don't want to spend time with your children to study and do activities together, you can't listen to their voices, understand their psychological needs and see their growth steps clearly. Of course, you won't be able to set their direction at any time. When I go out with my children, I always hold their hands or walk side by side like a friend. I still remember that my child and I walked more than twenty miles to his grandmother's house on May Day. The child has been holding my hand for more than twenty miles and said a lot to me. Tell me something interesting about his school, his best friend, his favorite teacher, the use of pocket money, the confusion in his study, and his ideal. When I walked to the industrial park, I saw the towering chimney smoking, and he talked to me about environmental problems ... At this time, I felt that the child had so many things in his cerebellar melon seeds and had his unique views on things. At this time, I really felt it. Seriously, I feel very happy to share my child's happiness and troubles with his little hands. I once read an article-"Parents are willing to" regress "and children can make progress! There are a few words in the article: "Parents' hands are used to caress their children, not to punish them, or they are not allowed to hit them. Parents' hands are not used to point, but to draw the future with their children. "It is said that holding the child's hand, you and the child's heart are closely linked, and your love for the child will be felt.
Finally, I want to say: parents should contact teachers more and ask them how to educate their children. Only by contacting the teacher frequently can we know the child's performance in school and the possible problems of the child. By contacting the teacher, you can also let the teacher know the performance of the child at home. In this way, both schools and families can correct children's bad habits in a timely and targeted manner.
These are my superficial feelings about family education. In short, children's education is trivial. Family education is precious, and teaching by example is better than teaching by words. As long as each of our parents can constantly explore and summarize in practice and find the most suitable method for their children. I believe that every family has a good child and every child has a pair of good parents.
Finally, I propose that all our parents use applause to express their sincere thanks to the teachers who have worked hard for their children! As parents, we will continue to support and cooperate with schools and teachers to educate children together. I sincerely wish all teachers and parents smooth work! Good health! Happy family! At the same time, I also hope that our children will learn progress and grow up healthily!
Thank you!
Family Education Parents' Speech 2 Dear teachers and parents:
Hello everyone!
Let me introduce myself first. I am Liu Yifan's mother in our class. It is a great honor to discuss children's growth education with you today. Thank the school teacher for giving me such a good opportunity. Here, on behalf of all the parents present, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to Mr. Wang, Mr. Han, Mr. Dai and all the teachers for their hard work and education!
When it comes to children's growth education and the experience of cultivating children, it is actually not experience. As the children grow up day by day, I am also groping day by day. It's only been more than a month since school started, and many things are just the beginning. I can only say that I took out my views and methods to communicate with our parents. These methods must be adjusted at any time with the aggravation of children's learning tasks in the future.
First of all, I want to say a question: "People-oriented" learning to be a man. Our parents send their children to school in the hope that they can learn knowledge easily and happily, and learn to be human at the same time. In these two aspects, I personally think that learning to be a man is more important than learning knowledge well. How to make a child become a healthy, psychologically healthy and academically excellent student is an important topic for our parents in the future, and this important task will last for more than ten years. Do parents feel stressed? Actually, I am the same, except that there is a saying that there is no motivation without pressure. Needless to say, parents can only cheer for their children! ) In learning to be a man, our Beihai school and teachers educate children every day. The school is doing well and the teachers are working hard. These parents can feel it from their children's behavior. So how can our parents subtly give their children a good environment for off-campus growth? I think we should at least do the following: first, parents should not speak uncivilized language in front of their children, do not gossip, and do not complain often; The second is to pass on happy and relaxed emotions to children, so that children can learn to be tolerant, generous and easy-going; Third, parents should push their children according to their personality and guide them to develop in a good direction. They can neither make children lose their individuality, restrict their development, nor let themselves go. Of course, our children's living space is not a vacuum, and our parents are not gods. Everyone is impatient and wants to lose his temper. In addition, children will always get some bad habits together. Parents and children sometimes need a space to release when they are under great pressure. If this happens, don't deliberately suppress it. I sometimes tell Liu Yifan a story book. When I talk about the words "scared out of my wits, running around and dying", she is always very excited. Let me read it again. When our parents are angry, we can also teach children a series of idioms and proverbs to let them know how angry their parents are. The purpose of this is not to make children really obedient and admit their mistakes, but to ease their emotions. Under your witty education, children are likely to forget the mistakes made by naughty, no longer nervous and no longer conflict. At the same time, parents are also venting. After that, the atmosphere will become much more harmonious. At this time, patiently teaching children what is right and wrong will get twice the result with half the effort, and children will feel that you and she have a common language, and you are "one country". Let's talk. It is most important to educate children to talk about methods. Use naive methods that those children can accept, understand their real thoughts, find out the key to the problem, and solve the most fundamental problem in the shortest time.
One more thing, encourage more and criticize less. There are no children who don't want to be praised. Children are happiest and most relaxed when they are praised for doing good deeds, being polite and making progress. At this time, it will be much smoother to urge them to study or reason with them. There is a saying that "blocking is better than dredging". It is far from effective to curb children's interest and suppress their naughty nature.
When our children are really willing to learn emotionally, good study habits will be easily formed. I asked some senior parents, without exception, stressed that children must form a good habit of learning from the first grade, even if they go home for only half an hour and 20 minutes every day, they must keep this habit. At the beginning, parents had better stay with their children. Help children review previews. Find the child's weak links and focus on breakthroughs. Some time ago, children have been learning pinyin. I found that Liu Yifan often mispronounced three-syllable festivals, such as Fireworks and Liu Hui. Whose head should these syllables add tones to? Children are vague from the beginning. But she remembers the teacher saying a nursery rhyme: "A is for A, A is not for O E, if I arrive with you, who will wear it for whom." Later, whenever this happens, I will let her recite and add tones to the children's songs. After several exercises, children can do this kind of exercise accurately. I heard that some children couldn't understand the questions in the exam. I think our parents can help their children solve this problem. When they go home to do their homework, they should consciously let their children read the questions and repeat the words they don't know. As long as you meet them every day, you will know them sooner or later. It is very important for parents to explain the topic in a language that children can understand. Then there is the "such as" at the bottom of the topic. Be sure to guide children to learn to look at examples. It's very useful in exams.
When a child falls in love with learning, everything will become simple. He can learn things everywhere in his life, but he can't deliberately think that this is for him to learn. For children, it is best to understand learning as an optional game. Of course, this is a bit difficult, depending on our parents' ways and means. Children sometimes have resistance when they are tired of learning. At this time, how to mobilize the enthusiasm of learning and encourage children is very important. A few days ago, I shared my little method with my parents in the group. Actually, I also learned it from my teacher. I bought a set of Angry Birds cards that children like very much. If I insist on completing a subject, I will be rewarded with a flat card. If I do everything right, I will get a flash card as a reward. If I save a flat card of 10, I can exchange it with my mother for a flash card. Memorize the ancient poems well and you will be rewarded with a happy big wolf poker. If you save enough cards in two colors, you will get a "king". Reward cards are stamped for children, which is different from others. In addition, if children recite ancient poems, they can pause to recite them halfway, such as "weeding at noon, sweat dripping down the soil." It is a trick for children to recite faster with this cadence.
Secondly, I want to communicate with parents about children's psychological counseling. Usually we chat in the group, and I find that most parents of boys say that their children are disobedient, have no discipline from girls, and often go their own way. Last weekend, the children in our class went out to play together. I also found that some children left because they were wronged or bored playing games, and no one paid attention to them, so I stopped playing. At this time, mothers began to feel uneasy, afraid that their children would not fit in, and nervously gathered around and asked their children, "Why don't you play with everyone?" What happened? "Mothers, too? Did your child tell you why later? Whether it is clear or not, did our children see the game they are interested in and then ran back to participate? Therefore, children are not going their own way, but have not encountered anything that makes them feel interesting. Our parents, do you all know children's hobbies? Do you know what they are most concerned about and nervous about? Take these questions back to observe children, start with children's hobbies, make friends with children, regard children's hobbies as their own hobbies, love what children love and think what children think. If we can talk endlessly with our children about Altman, the Dragon Knight, the Kingdom of Locke, and the little devil of Balala, we can talk happily with our children. How can we make our children not regard his parents as good friends to talk to? Boys need buddies, dad will be their first buddy, girls need girlfriends, and mom will be their little secret sharer. When we can play with children, we will share our adult experience with them bit by bit, and tell them how to interact with people and grow up happily in this society with some characters in the story and our own personal experience. Don't let children think that parents' criticism is that they don't love them. Criticism is another expression of love. Today's criticism is to let them get more praise and affirmation tomorrow.
Finally, I want to tell our parents that when children cry, tell them, "Crying won't solve any problems. I always have to face my own study. " Similarly, when our parents are upset, they can't solve any problems. Finding a way and trying to solve the problem is the best way.
"Brilliance lies in dullness, and greatness lies in persistence." For the parents of our first-grade children, the road to education has a long way to go. I hope this sentence can encourage all parents present.