Talk less and listen more
When the child's mood is wrong, let him vent and talk, less preaching and nagging, respond from time to time, let the child have a sense of identity and resonance, and sometimes give a short suggestion.
Understand the adult world
Don't overprotect children, and allow them to do some work-study programs, holiday practice, extracurricular activities, vocational training, etc. And let teenagers explore the real working environment of adults.
Make friends with children.
What are friends like? This not only helps them emotionally, but also allows them to explore their goals and values freely.
High-level discussion
Frequent high-level thinking and discussion with children can encourage children to make rational and thoughtful choices from different beliefs and values.
Face up to children's needs
Parents need to face up to their children's growth needs, understand their children, meet their reasonable needs as much as possible, and don't refuse them directly if they are unreasonable. They should explain the reasons and don't accumulate contradictions with rebellious children.
Create a good family environment
A harmonious family atmosphere will make children feel the care of their parents from an early age, and will let them know that their parents also want the care of others, thus helping children to develop from learning to care for their parents to caring for others.