Every generation of parents has different ways to educate their children. In the past, parents usually liked to use repressive education for their children, hoping that they would improve themselves. However, nowadays, praise education is advocated, and many parents blindly follow suit, especially when children are young. Parents will praise their children blindly, so if parents only praise their children, it may have the following effects on their children.

The child is not aware of his shortcomings. Although the educational method of praise is correct, if you praise your child too much, it is very likely that the child himself does not realize that he has some shortcomings. Maybe children will feel perfect, at least in the eyes of their parents. Although we can give them some self-confidence, when children go to school, get in touch with other students, or go to society when they grow up, if they can't clearly recognize their own shortcomings and correct them,

The children will stop. In addition, if parents praise their children too much, it is likely to lead them to be too confident and stop. Parents instill very perfect and excellent ideas into their children from an early age, and will not point out their shortcomings, so children will not realize their own shortcomings and will not make progress. Usually, such children have more contact with their classmates after school, and they are often isolated by other students because of complacency or excessive expansion.

Children's ability to resist setbacks is reduced. Some parents praise their children because they want to protect them better, but this over-protection will also lead to depression when their children go to society in the future, if they really encounter difficulties or setbacks.

In particular, some parents will pave the way for their children in the future when they are very young, so that their children can have a pleasant journey. However, parents can't stay with their children all their lives. If parents are negligent in discipline, children will not know how to face difficulties and solve them. At this time, children will feel a little bit difficult, which will make them feel that life is very difficult, thus producing a strong psychology. And this child is likely to have some psychological diseases, such as depression, or even more terrible consequences because the difficulties are not solved.

The child is under too much psychological pressure. Some parents exaggerate when praising their children. But some children will be very self-aware and think that they are not as good as their parents boast. In order to continue to get praise from parents, children will try their best to make themselves perfect, which leads to great psychological pressure on children. After a long time, children may not be able to bear this pressure, have some rebellious psychology, and even get tired of their parents' praise.