First, listen to the children's feelings.
To really understand what rebellious children are thinking, what we should do most is to listen to their feelings. There must be a reason why children become rude. If we criticize children directly without knowing anything, it will have no effect on their physical and mental health. We can put a low profile and ask the children. "Son, you haven't been in a good state recently. Can you tell me what happened? " "Parents and children are separated by walls, but we sincerely welcome him and he will tell us what is in his heart. After the children confide in us, they naturally won't have too many concerns. Take the children out for a walk. In the rebellious period, if children feel depressed, we can take them out to play for a change. Psychologically, the best way to solve depression is to divert attention. Taking children out for an outing and eating a big meal can divert their attention.
Second, clarify the truth without reprimanding.
When the boy's behavior and demands are unreasonable, parents should first reason with the boy or tell him a similar story. He reminded himself through reasoning or short stories that he realized that his actions or demands were inappropriate and corrected his thoughts and demands. Don't criticize and criticize teenagers rudely. Doing so will hurt his self-esteem, and sometimes it will cause his intentional resistance. If parents adopt gentle and powerful education methods, it will not only help boys to understand and correct their mistakes, but also ease the relationship between parents and boys.
Third, the education method of drowning love is not desirable.
Many families are only children. Giving children what they want will give them the wrong information. He is the most important person in the world. Everything revolves around him. He will take the love and tolerance of others for granted, and such a child will not share, tolerate and love others. Children will go their own way.