Children's sense of control over life order is an important part of their growth. In family education, parents should pay attention to cultivating children's independence and self-confidence, so that children can feel their own strength in daily life. This article will introduce some methods to help parents enhance their children's sense of control over life order.

Participate in games and housework

Participate in games and housework with children, praise children from time to time, let children feel their own strength, thus enhancing their sense of control over life order.

Communicate with children

When you need to leave temporarily, communicate with your children and let them understand your arrangement. For example, "Mom is going to prepare dinner. You have fun here. If you need anything, call me. I'll be right there. " When children can play independently, give them affirmation and cultivate their independence.

Express love

In daily life, express your love for your children, even if it seems trivial. Tell them: "You are mom's favorite" and "No matter what happens, mom will love you". These words are extremely precious promises for children and an important cornerstone for them to build a sense of security. Don't say "the wolf is coming", "the police uncle is coming to get you" and "if you do this again, your mother will not want you". These words will hurt children's sense of security!

Establish a close relationship

Let other family members establish close relationships with their children to ease their "Oedipus complex". In this way, children can better adapt to the departure of family members and enhance their independence.