But if it is an adolescent child, the child at this time is about 15 to 18 years old. At this time, the child's judgment on himself, others and society is not comprehensive enough, that is, psychologically, self-awareness and will are not fully mature, but physically mature, so it is a contradictory stage both physically and psychologically, so parents should understand and respect it.
You can't tell your parents that your children have stopped listening to you and started to rebel, right? In fact, everything happens for a reason. Why doesn't he want to hear it? Did he ever listen to his parents? Why not now? The reason for looking for parents first. We can't say that everything our parents do is right, because parents are human beings and make mistakes. There is nothing wrong with investing in stocks. Think about whether you ever criticized him for a little thing, and you asked why. When your children are troubled by teachers and classmates' questions at school, do you have the patience to ask them? This is one point.
Another is that parents are too nagging and empathetic. There is a person who talks to you a lot every day to educate you, and you know it is right. Maybe you will be grateful the first day and think about it the next day. . . . . . What about the 10 day? On the100th day, you will be annoyed, although it is good for you. A mature adult will be troubled, let alone an immature teenager. Right? If you are a nag, I advise you to leave her alone. After he fails, he will gradually think of your motto. Don't be afraid of young people failing.
I am a fan of tolerance education. My opinion is to know his thoughts first, so that what you do can be understood by her. But tolerance does not necessarily mean not criticizing or educating. Children should be educated when they make mistakes, but remember their attitudes and ways.
My attitude towards education, especially family education, is all about things, not people. I hope my point of view is helpful to you.