To accomplish one thing together, to do this, we must understand that we should advance side by side, which means that we are in step with our children on the way forward. Parents are the guides of children's life, so we don't need to urge them endlessly. For example, when we finish some housework, we can choose to do it with our children. One of the advantages of this is that it can promote the parent-child relationship between parents and children, and the other is that it can let children learn from their parents in the process of doing housework.
We always say that parents are role models for children, and we should set an example. In fact, when we set an example, we should do it with our children. Because when doing something together, you can see how the other person does his own behavior, so when doing housework, parents become role models for their children, and parents can lead their children step by step and guide them to complete it.
Second, learn to respect children's ideas and move forward side by side. The most important thing is to learn to respect each other's ideas, not only in the process of educating children, but also in the process of getting along with others. For children, their ideas are very important. If they walk side by side, parents need to help their children think and respect their ideas.
You know, if you are urging your child, most parents will ignore the child's thoughts, because time is tight and the child can't keep up with the parents' rhythm, so they will ignore the child's thoughts. It is impossible to walk side by side with children like this. If you want to walk side by side, you must understand that respect is king. Parents learn to respect their children, and children will learn to respect their parents. If two people can communicate better, then education will naturally go on better.
Third, we should educate our children more. If we want to stand side by side with children, we should understand that when children make mistakes, we should not scold them endlessly, or even urge them to do it quickly. In such a high-intensity education, children will be impatient to receive information from the outside world, which is not good for education, will make children more rebellious, and his psychology may also be resistant. Although it is said that children should be given more education, we should pay attention to the way of education, so that children can feel the respect of their parents and their parents attach importance to their children.
There are many ways of education, not only scolding, but also encouraging education and guiding children to be accepted more easily. This is the way to stand side by side with children.