1 children's spiritual growth needs affirmation: from the perspective of cultivating children's self-confidence, it is said that parents should fully accept their children and don't let them grow up in denial. Vivid examples are used to illustrate that children have the same psychology as adults, and children also need adults' affirmation and understanding. I also have many shortcomings at this point. After listening to the teacher's words, I must do profound introspection myself, and I will definitely do it in my later life. Children's spiritual growth needs freedom: the teacher here says that children should be allowed to do what they think is happy, such as spending their own time and pocket money and keeping their little secrets. It also triggered a story that children also need equal communication. A person's mind will be unrestrained and open-minded, and children will protect themselves if they have something to say.