Successful cases of parents educating their children 1
Family education of Chen Dou, a doctoral student studying in the United States.
Teach learning methods and embark on a journey of success. August 18, 2003 was an unforgettable day for Chen Du, who was studying in China University of Science and Technology. On this day, his long-awaited wish came true, and he obtained the qualification of studying for doctoral students at Stanford University in San Francisco. The news reached home and alma mater? Teacher Chen Yuhong from No.18 Middle School in Tianchang City, Anhui Province is very excited. Years of education have not been in vain. Recalling Chen Dou's learning and growing experience, he has endless words. As an educator, Mr. Chen not only achieved excellent results in teaching, but also had unique views and successful methods in family education. The following is teacher Chen's self-report.
Cultivate interest and give children a good teacher. Interest is the best teacher. People are always different, with congenital inheritance and the influence of life, environment and education. When I educate my children, I first cultivate their interest in knowledge and learning. When Chen Dou was in the first and second grades of primary school, his interest in learning was not high. I realized the seriousness of the problem and felt that I should stimulate his interest in learning, so I told him that there was no danger of knowledge and took him to Xinhua Bookstore to read all kinds of books. Little Chen Dou's eyes sparkled and he said childishly, There are so many books here! I want to take all these books home. ? I said:? What's the use of just moving back? If you want to increase your knowledge, you must read and study hard. As long as you study hard, I will always buy it for you. What did you say?/Sorry? I bought some extracurricular reading materials from Xinhua Bookstore, such as Classic of Mountains and Seas, Hundreds of Surnames, Selected Compositions for Primary School Students, and Math Problem Sets. As soon as I got home, he worked hard and became interested in books. I finished reading some books I bought a few days ago.
I keep lending books to him from the school library and friends. He reads all kinds of books, which can be said to be all-encompassing: astronomy, mathematics, history and biology. His books are all very interesting. Of course, I will not give my children an answer like other parents, but discuss, study and consult reference books together. Facts have proved that this method can especially improve children's learning enthusiasm and self-confidence. Chen Dou, Jr. often feels happy for days on end, because he understands the problem through reading.
In terms of entertainment, I handled it properly. When I teach Chen Dou to study, I should study hard and enjoy myself when I have a rest. He watches TV. I never set time limits. I can watch as much as I like. If I don't like it, I'll watch less. When The Journey to the West was shown, some parents wouldn't let their children watch it. These students begged him to talk about last night? Stories? After that, what happened next Before the TV was turned on, Chen Dou watched the original Journey to the West at home. The next day, he went to tell them. Their Chinese teacher told me humorously. In order to tell stories to his classmates, Chen Dou prepares his homework every day when he goes home! ?
A good learning method is a shortcut to success. In the usual teaching, I tell students that learning should focus on methods. Kong Ziyun:? Study from time to time? It's a matter of method. Listen carefully in class, preview before class, review after class, learn to sort out, summarize and master. I often say this to him at home.
Before going to bed every night, he always goes over the text or English words and reviews the key points of the day before he can sleep peacefully.
In a mid-term exam, his test paper had a high correct rate of big questions, but there were many mistakes in fill-in-the-blank questions and multiple-choice questions. I told him that the problem was that the basic concepts in the book were not clearly grasped. After listening, he reviewed carefully, read books repeatedly and asked me to ask him questions. I asked questions while reading his book, and he answered like a flood. There is no last place in the final exam.
Being good at induction is an important point in Chen Dou's learning method. He can pay attention to sorting out and summarizing his studies in various subjects. I remember once, I accidentally used one of his draft papers. When he was sorting out, he found that one was missing. He asked me who moved it, so I had to tell the truth. He is too sad to eat. I taught him to ask questions to the teacher only after thinking deeply and when he was in doubt, which was helpful to his study. Chen Dou seldom asks the teacher how to do this problem and that problem. He always asks: What is the difference and connection between this part of knowledge and that part of knowledge? Once, I asked the math teacher in class, what is the difference between exponential function and logarithmic function, and what is the connection? At that time, the teacher may find it difficult to say one or two sentences clearly, so he spent a lesson on this issue in the next day's class and praised his ability to ask questions. How about studying in physics class? Free fall? After a class, I heard the teacher say that an object has a positive downward velocity and a negative upward velocity in motion. How to calculate the negative speed is not mentioned in the textbook, but he got the answer through self-study.
Reading? Questioning? And then what? Doubt? Ask the teacher to realize it through thinking? Solve doubts? This is a good learning method and a shortcut to success. Learning to be a man and benefiting children for life is the foundation of children. When Chen Du was a child, I often told him stories and history. He still has a commemorative badge. That was when he went to Huai 'an in the fourth grade of primary school. Zhou Enlai Memorial Hall? I bought it during my visit, so I will tell him about Zhou Enlai on the way? Studying for the rise of China? I hope that when he grows up, he will become a person who loves his country and nation and has a sense of social responsibility. He can't just live for himself, but take the world as his responsibility like Zhou.
On the first day of my child's primary school, I went to school to attend the parent-teacher conference. After the meeting, other parents led their children away. I asked the child to stay, and the father and son picked up the scraps of paper and shells left at the meeting together, giving the child a vivid lesson.
Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become a person with rich knowledge, eccentric personality, no feelings for parents and indifference to others. They should respect others, be honest and trustworthy, and be self-reliant. We should regard the child as an independent person, fully respect and understand the child, and reason with him no matter how big his mistake is, and never start work.
During the summer vacation, he often goes to Children's Home. One day, when I came back from going out, I saw that he was not at home and went to look for him. He was playing transformers at other children's houses. Seven or eight transformers were on the ground, and two or three were separated. The door was open and there was no one in the room. I asked the children of his host family to let him play, but he didn't answer.
At this time, the host came back, and I took the initiative to apologize to him, but the host understood that playing is a child's nature. He's dismantling Transformers, which shows that he's smart and has hands-on ability. ? Then I lent him two transformers. When I got home, I didn't blame him, but told him: Never take other people's things without their permission. This is a bad boy's job. ? He said:? Dad, I get it. It won't happen again ?
? Do your own thing? This is what I often say to him at ordinary times. In the second and third grades of primary school, I washed my shoes, washed my socks and cleaned my room. I remember that when Chen Dou caught a cold in the fourth grade of primary school, I asked him to go to the hospital alone, and he was the only one in terms of registration, medical treatment, pricing, payment and medicine. During my college years, I selflessly helped others to help me with my English. The scholarships obtained are used to finance some poor college students; He also went through a series of formalities required to apply for studying abroad. These life experiences laid a solid foundation for him to go to society in the future.
Teacher Chen's words are very insightful. ? Genius? You can't create, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents, every child can succeed. With his own efforts and hard work, Chen Du embarked on the road of life he pursued, and the road ahead is still very long. We sincerely wish him continued efforts and continuous progress.
Successful cases of parents educating their children II
The case of Li Kuchan's godson.
Mr Li Kuchan (1898- 1983) is a famous contemporary painter and art educator in China. Li Yan is his son. Under Li Kuchan's careful education, Li Yan stands out in the painting world and is quite accomplished. ? People have no character and write poorly? Li Yanzi followed in his father's footsteps and became fascinated with painting. Li Kuchan often said to his son. People must first have personality, and then have style; People have no character and write poorly. Qin Gui is not without talent. His handwriting is quite good, but because of his bad personality, people all over the world gnash their teeth and hate it. When they saw his handwriting, they immediately tore it up and went to the toilet or burned it. It is said that leaving his book is ominous and will bring trouble, but in fact, people who hate him will not be beautiful in his works. ?
Li Kuchan kept his word and took the lead in demonstrating. Beijing fell in 1937. Fake? Xinmin society? Want to woo celebrities to decorate their faces, and send someone to invite Li Kuchan? Out of the mountain? :? You have to promise, your officer is doing it, and there is a box (gun) behind it. You are more proud than the county magistrate! ? Li Kuchan refused, unmoved. Since then, he flatly resigned from his teaching post and made a living by selling paintings.
Father's words and deeds are seen in his eyes, heard in his ears, remembered in his heart and turned into actions. ? ""? After that, one day, Li Kuchan called his son and said that the relevant departments had informed him to claim the scattered confiscated goods.
He told his son over and over again: Last time, Ye He returned all the things they took by mistake to us. This is the time to look at people's hearts, we will be wrong, or others will! ? Don't let Li Kuchan said, in Li Yanlai? A batch of miscellaneous paintings? I found a volume with 20 frameless works by Huang, and there were two or three books with Li Keqiang's previous words written on it. Li Yan did not follow the instructions and immediately returned it to the staff, and immediately notified Li Chaqi. What Li Keqi sees and loves is in the spirit of heaven. Li Kuchan was also very happy after hearing the news. The friend present at that time joked:? Why not take this opportunity to ask Mr. Li for a cow? It turns out that Li Keran is famous for painting cows. But Li Kuchan repeatedly said: It is ok to return things to their original owners! ? After Li Kuchan's death, Li Yan talked about it in detail in the book Rain Stone Record-Li Kuchan and His Art. This shows that his father's character education has a great influence on him. ? Art is hard work? It is unrealistic for Li Kuchan to educate his son to follow art, but? Bitter his mind first, work his bones and muscles, and starve his body and skin? . He said to his son: doing art is hard work, but you can't enjoy indulging yourself. Many accomplished intellectuals in ancient times were born in poverty and were afraid of hardship, so they couldn't get out. ? Then combined with my own artistic course, I said: I have good conditions-I was born with a bitter background and I am not afraid of suffering. Every time I went out to paint, I painted all day and asked the old farmer for green onions with a piece of dry food, even if it was a meal! ? Under the guidance of her father, Li Yan was not afraid of the wind and the sun, climbed mountains and waded, and insisted on sketching in the wild for a long time.