Middle age is the brightest stage in life.

All kinds of experiences and States have reached the peak of life.

When I was young, I knew nothing about life planning. I only know how to play and go wherever it is fun.

Go all the way according to the "fun" mentality.

Laughing and laughing every day, I didn't do anything with my heart, just wanted to finish it. It was just a task, and I don't remember what I learned from it.

When I was young, I was always frivolous. I think I know everything.

Proud face.

Always look up to yourself, as if there is nothing wrong. I am impulsive. I shoot when I am impulsive, and I get hurt when I shoot.

A cynical look, I feel that I am the core area, and I have to be led by others.

When people reach middle age, the edges and corners have been smoothed by years. There are only traces of years left. But also got the wisdom of life.

You can't be upset because of a little thing. There are no obstacles in the world, only people who can't get through.

Middle-aged life, bearing the strength of the family, has become an umbrella for children.

Middle-aged life is also a stage to realize self-planning.

Only by taking precautions can we fight the battle of life earlier.

Regarding planning, although there are thousands of roads, there is only one road.

A friend of mine planned it like this:

In 1935, I opened a small restaurant, which was managed by my wife during the day and helped him after work at night.

He once said: I opened this restaurant not only to make money, but to realize his dream of opening a shop.

He said: for the time being, work on the "three five-year plans" first, and then continue when this is realized.

I am ashamed to see others planning, but I just imagine that I have never taken this step and am a lookout.

I wonder if you have any good plans and suggestions. Please leave a message below. ...

When people reach middle age, they should plan not only their own lives?

Speaking of middle age, the porters in mountaineering immediately appeared, bending over their backs, holding the front basket in one hand and the back basket with their heads down. This picture is very similar to the situation of middle-aged people.

Middle-aged people must support the elderly and children. You are the pillar of this family, and nothing can go wrong.

So, when it comes to planning the life of middle-aged people:

First, protect yourself. Health is the first priority. Work should not be overloaded, and diet should ensure nutrition. Remember!

Second, creating a harmonious family atmosphere is conducive to the state of the elderly and the growth of children.

Third, pay more attention to children. When people reach middle age, their children are in middle school or university. Children in this period are prone to detours. They should communicate with their children more and cultivate their correct outlook on life and values. If you have gone to college, you should also pay attention to employment.

Fourth, the above problems have been dealt with and solved, and you can consider your life and work, because with experience and experience, you can re-plan your work and development direction.

Middle-aged people are actually more promising. They have the right time, the right place and the right people, so if they have a good direction, they may have unexpected gains.

To tell the truth, the word "planning life" is too arrogant, and arrogant people will always be the worst to be repaired. In the decades when the Soviet Union existed, I was busy planning this and that every day, and the final result was to plan myself into a state of ashes.

Every time I go to a city, the last place I want to go is a large and small park. Crowds of old people, in addition to a few chirping screams, have endless sadness, helplessness, loneliness and desolation in their indifferent eyes, which makes people sad.

China people's longing for happiness in their later years is always inseparable from the words "children and grandchildren are full, children and grandchildren are full, children and grandchildren are full". Every Spring Festival Evening, they can't do without the program "Go home often and have a look", which specially sprinkles salt on the wounds of some old people. Some time ago, there was even a suggestion that legislation should be enacted. How many days should children spend with the elderly each year? In reality, how many people can do it?

Turn on the mobile phone, make a list of happiness for the elderly in their later years, and teach them chicken soup for the soul. For example, have your own hobbies, exercise more, have a good figure, travel more, find like-minded friends of the same age and so on. But ask yourself, after a lot of practice has proved that after actively participating in the above activities, how many old people really moved towards the road of happiness in their later years?

Walking to the door of the second half of life, with a responsible attitude towards your future, there are three issues that must be considered clearly without prejudice:

1. Why are most old people in western countries always so confident in the sunshine that they can't see sadness on their faces? Most of them don't have much savings and their children are not around. Besides the social system, do their beliefs also play a huge role?

Second, in order to maintain long-term stability, we must solve the problem of "who am I" ideologically. Where am I? where am I going? "These fundamental problems in life, you figured it out, and the life problems in the second half of the year were solved by more than half. Be sure to get rid of the false history, theory and argument that others have forced on you. Happiness is your own, others won't look at you at all.

Third, the foundation of happiness in life is to have the truest faith. Look up the map of world religions and follow most people. The real answer lies in them.

Treat every day as your last, and cherish the people in front of you.

This proposition is a bit big, because different people have different medieval times and different natural plans.

However, no matter where you start, the ultimate goal is to gain respect, wealth, health and freedom.

A friend of mine, who has been in business for more than ten years, has a monthly salary of 3,000 to 5,000 after ten years, and is a shareholder without dividends and equity.

Now nearly 40 or more years of entrepreneurship have exhausted their energy and confidence. Enterprises naturally can't see hope, and then want to quit, but find themselves at a loss.

Want to go to work, looked up and found that the current enterprise has closed the door to 40-year-old people;

Want to do business, inquire from the inside out and find that you have no money, no resources and no experience;

I want to learn a technology, and I find that I have a high school to go to, a young child to raise, and a young wife who wants to compete ~

Although I am anxious, my friends are very restrained and never let my wife and children see the flaws.

Thinking about the rest of your life every night?

When he suffers from insomnia, he also has many bad plans. He is used to waking up at 5 o'clock every morning. He said that he likes to see the horizon turn white little by little, and he knows that a new day will come again every day.

But the reality has not changed, every day.

Until one day, he called me and said to have dinner together.

At the dinner table, I looked at this middle-aged man who had gone through many vicissitudes, and his face was covered with old skin that should not be his age.

Frost on the temple, obviously thinking too much.

I asked him six questions:

1. What kind of life do you want most?

2. What do your friends say about you?

3. What do you think is the most important?

Of all the things you have done, which one makes you feel very fulfilled and proud?

5. If you had to make a career choice again regardless of age, what would you choose?

6. Will you make all the efforts for this choice?

My friend was silent for a while, looking a little embarrassed, and his sallow face was a little flushed.

However, he soon raised his long and dense eyelashes and said thank you!

…

My friend is actually a very smart person, but he is a steady and pragmatic person in essence. He just found a partner who loves adventure and lacks execution. Years later, he was kidnapped by responsibility and dragged down by desires and dreams. More than ten years have passed without results, which has led to the present predicament.

After some conversation, he made a comprehensive review of himself, his advantages and disadvantages and the most desired result.

…

A few months later, he told me that he was admitted to the teacher qualification certificate because he was practical and reliable. His former partner took a fancy to him and recommended him to a famous public school. Now he has a stable job and has enough time to spend with his children and wife. The key is that his children have a degree at school and don't have to pay high sponsorship fees. What is more gratifying is that his wife embarked on the road of entrepreneurship because of her very good business sense.

Two couples, one is doing increment, the other is doing stock, and the children's learning has also embarked on a formal.

Sometimes, letting go of yourself and finding the right path is the best life.

Find yourself, not afraid of middle age!

Add some Lycium barbarum in your thermos cup first, and then we'll discuss this topic!

How do people plan their lives when they reach middle age? As the saying goes, stand at thirty, but don't be confused at forty. It is the golden stage of life, and it is also the climbing stage connecting the preceding with the following. Facing the elderly parents, it is also the most energetic, hopeful and tiring period to shoulder the counseling period of educating children. There are two extremes in this stage. On the one hand, people with academic qualifications and skills are in a good period of exerting their specialties, making progress and accumulating financial resources. Although I am old and tired, I have gained a lot and I don't worry about food, clothing, housing and transportation. On the other hand, laid-off workers are in a difficult period of working around without a fixed income, and the difficulty can be imagined. In short, different people should set short-term and long-term ideals and goals according to their own actual conditions, and establish a correct outlook on life and values. Those who have achieved success should not be complacent and make persistent efforts. Don't be discouraged when the cause is difficult, but bite the bullet and live. In any case, we should follow the right path of life. Poor people will be poor if they are not poor. Planning your life, what suits you is the best planning. Steady and steady progress, there will be gains and new changes in life.

The plan is not changing quickly ~

When people reach middle age,

Try to be a good person and set an example for your children ~

Take good care of your health, give less burden to your children, and have the ability to take good care of your elderly parents ~

Adjust your mentality, take care of your career and work ~

Have one or two exquisite hobbies ~

The years of burning passion have ignited a brilliant life. When people reach middle age, they should follow their fate, be optimistic, let go, keep fit, be smart, refresh themselves, be filial, educate people, take responsibility and reduce their burdens ... hahahaha! How to do it varies from person to person, and the fittest is better.