1, especially boys' families should use low-key education. Teach children more about talking to children, and at the same time teach them to talk slowly about urgent things, make clear about important things, talk carefully about things that have not happened, don't talk nonsense about things that can't be done, and don't do things that harm people.

2, yelling when educating children, the first of the two results, the child is scared by you, full of fear, no mind to think about why it is wrong, just hope that you will quickly end the reprimand.

The second kind of children are angered by you and fight back with excitement. I don't want to think about anything wrong, I just want to make you angry. Often reprimanding children loudly will not only get no effect, but will make them more rebellious and stop telling you what you know.

3. When you lower your voice, your tone is calm and serious, and you look at the child's dialogue in a calm tone, you will be "not angry and arrogant" in the eyes of the child. Children will not be overly afraid and resistant to you. At this time, it will be much better to reason with children and argue about right and wrong.

Moreover, whispering will make adults more rational and calm, speak in moderation, avoid attacking and hurting children's self-esteem, and preemptively prevent children from using loud voices.