Presumably many families have a naughty Xiong Haizi. Once he is naughty, it's really a headache. Whether you beat him or scold him, it won't make any difference. On the contrary, it will be worse, and parents often have no choice. In fact, educating children should pay attention to ways and means. The best way to deal with Xiong Haizi is not to beat and scold. Smart parents use this trick more effectively.

Beating and cursing doesn't work. Let him remember in another way.

As the mother of a 4-year-old boy, I have a deep understanding. At first, my children were also very disobedient. He didn't listen to anything he said, hit him and scolded him, but it was useless. He healed the scar and forgot the pain, so he won't listen next time. Later, I decided to change the way of education, and I couldn't go on like this.

When watching TV, my children always like to be close to TV, which is bad for their eyes. They are beaten a lot for it. After the fight, I obeyed for a while and didn't stay so close to the TV, but the next day I forgot to sit near the TV and watch cartoons. Later, I told him that I wouldn't let him watch TV if he sat so close in the future. Of course, he said it again without listening. Seeing that he didn't respond, I immediately turned off the switch and told him that if he sat far away, I would turn on the TV.

I had a try attitude, but I didn't expect it to be really useful. He immediately sat far away. After repeated use for two or three times, the child will completely remember it, and then he will take the initiative to sit in the right position every time he watches TV.

Another way, let him realize the consequences of doing bad things.

In addition to some bad habits in life, my child also has a habit of hitting people. They start to do things when they disagree, and they are grumpy. Once I played with other children in the community, because two people accidentally bumped into each other while sliding the slide, so my child began to beat him and made him cry. I was very distressed.

It's not once or twice that my children hit people like this. Although I will teach him a lesson every time, it is useless. He will still hit people. I didn't realize the seriousness of the matter until he hit the child again this time, so I must make him realize the consequences of doing bad things. So I dragged him home and said to him, "Because you hit someone again, you are not allowed to go out to play with children for two days."

Speaking of which, I really haven't let him go out to play for two days. Later, every time my child had another disagreement with the child, he would report it to me first, instead of hitting people first.

In fact, even if it is useful to beat children, try not to educate them by beating and cursing, which is not conducive to their mental health. Using wisdom and methods suitable for children is not only more effective than beating and cursing, but also can reduce the harm to children, killing two birds with one stone.