1. From now on, I will encourage and praise my children more than criticize, blame and blame them, because I know that only encouragement and praise can give them confidence and strength. Criticism, accusations and complaints are just venting my emotions and hurting my children's hearts.

2. From now on, I will use actions to influence children, not words to preach, because I know that children's behavior is not formed through teaching, but through influence and imitation.

3. From now on, I should listen to children's voices more, instead of rushing to judge them, because I know that listening is the best communication.

From now on, I will unconditionally love my children as they are, not as I ask, because I know that is my selfishness and ego.

From now on, I will learn to kneel down and communicate with children on an equal footing, instead of commanding them condescendingly, because I know that forced suppression will only bring stronger resistance and resistance to children.

6. From now on, I will accompany my children with my heart, instead of perfunctory children when I am away, because I know that only true companionship can make children feel the warmth of love.

7. From now on, I will control my emotions and handle every moment with my children quietly and peacefully, because I know that grumpiness and violence only represent my incompetence and harm to my children.

8. From now on, I will actively handle the relationship with my lover, create a harmonious family environment, and never let the contradiction between husband and wife affect and hurt my children, because I know that only a harmonious relationship between husband and wife is the greatest love for children.

9. From now on, I want my child to grow into what he wants to grow up, not what I expect, because I know that the child does not belong to me. He just came to this world through me to fulfill his dream and mission.

10. From now on, I will plant more good karma and do more good deeds for my children. Because I know good reasons, good results can be achieved. There will be a house, Qing Yu will accumulate evil, and there will be more seedlings.

1 1. From now on, I will find my own problems through children's problems and correct myself, because I know that all children's problems are my problems and I am the root of the problems.

12. From now on, I want to be the best friend, the closest partner and the most loving parent in my child's life.