What is the harm of beating and cursing education? I believe everyone knows that a child's IQ is related to many factors, but long-term abuse by parents will make the child a rebellious overlord. Let's share the harm of beating and scolding education, hoping to help you.

What is the harm of beating and cursing education? 1 1. The most obvious harm of beating and scolding education is the serious gap between parents and children.

For example, if a child is beaten, his mood is also very depressed. However, parents have not found a better way to educate their children. Their children will have resentment, fear and pessimism after suffering physically and mentally. The result of beating and scolding children is that the relationship between children and parents is getting weaker and weaker and the gap is getting deeper and deeper. There will even be children who have the psychology of revenge on their parents and society.

2. Beating and scolding children can easily cause children to lose confidence and be pessimistic.

Don't think that children have no thoughts, and it doesn't matter if they beat and scold. In fact, every child has self-esteem, and every child wants to be respected by others, including parents. This respect will give children confidence. If children are often beaten, not only will their self-esteem be damaged, but they will even have world-weary thoughts and give up on themselves. Children who are often beaten will subconsciously think that even their parents don't love themselves and there is no warmth in the world, thus becoming indifferent and selfish.

Children are clever when they lie. If they often beat and scold their children for no reason, they will come up with all kinds of lies in the face of being beaten and escape the fate of being beaten through lies. It can relieve the pain of skin and flesh at one time. But the lies told by children are often untenable and easy to be found by parents. In order to punish children for lying, parents are tougher. In order to avoid being beaten by parents again, children have to lie the next time they do something wrong, which constitutes a vicious circle.

Every parent wants his children to become talents. However, when it comes to educating children, we should realize that there are many dangers in beating and scolding education. After understanding the harm in this respect, we must establish a correct educational concept, educate our children into adults and ensure their healthy growth.

What is the harm of beating and cursing education? There are many mothers who don't know much about the harm of beating and scolding education. To this end, I wrote the following article for you:

1. Beating and scolding education is a remnant of the traditional autocratic family system in China, which will cause serious physical and mental harm to teenagers. Beating and scolding education is also a deformed way of family education, which will not only make children grow up, but also lead to family tragedy.

2. Beat and scold children regardless of their needs and characteristics, blindly proceed from themselves, and do not allow children to have any mistakes or objections, so that children can't feel the love of parents and children, make children feel uneasy and anxious, and their physical and mental development is adversely affected.

3. Without due love and support, children will often form psychological problems such as indifference, loneliness, hatred, aggression and poor self-confidence, and these psychological trauma will often become the root of bad behavior and even crime in the future.

4. Beating and scolding children causes lifelong regret. Children can't bear to hang themselves, some run away from home, and some parents kill their children by mistake.

On the surface, snoring can temporarily help children overcome incorrect desires and control incorrect behaviors. However, it cannot fundamentally solve the problem. If it is not good, it may also make children develop the habit of lying and become disobedient. Parents don't do it in front of them, but behind their backs. Children are naive and ignorant, can't tell good from evil, and their character is not strong. Parents should patiently and meticulously teach him to learn to distinguish and actively inspire and guide him.

6, snoring will insult the child's personality, stifle the child's personality, will make the child feel disgusted and rebellious, and it is easy for the child to lose self-esteem, lose the pillar of life, be obedient and timid. When you grow up, you can't be independent, you have to rely on others for everything, and it is easy to form a character of "falling with the wind".

7. Children are parents' incompetence and lack of self-cultivation, which may also cause children to despise their parents and reduce their prestige. Some children will treat other children and the next generation in the same way after deeply forming the concept of "I will hit you if you are wrong", and will become authoritative and violent parents in the future.

This is a bad way to deal with the consequences of children's behavior. The purpose of parents is to enable children to overcome shortcomings, correct mistakes, help children distinguish right from wrong, and clarify the direction of their efforts. However, beating and cursing itself does not explain what kind of behavior is correct and should be, and it is often accompanied by children's negative emotions. Therefore, parents should educate their children reasonably, forcefully, effectively, moderately and timely.

9. Beating and scolding education is a deformed way of family education, which should be avoided by modern families.

What is the harm of beating and cursing education? 3 1 will affect children's physical and mental health.

I have a ready-made case around me. He was beaten so badly by his father that he shut himself up and refused to communicate with others. Serious enough to have depression, and finally suicidal. For the healthy growth of children, parents must not just rely on beating and cursing.

2. It will affect the affection between parents and children.

I was often beaten by my mother when I was a child. At that time, my feelings with her were very subtle. I almost never take the initiative to communicate with her, and I am even afraid of her. Pay attention to methods in educating children. Beating and scolding children is an extreme practice. Hurting children also gives them a sense of distance.

3. It will affect children's interpersonal relationships.

Nowadays, many children lack self-confidence, don't like to communicate, and close themselves. He is likely to be in a depressed environment for a long time, so he dare not take the initiative to talk to others, and he will feel uncomfortable when he sees others approaching. Parents should lead by example and guide their children in the right way.

4, it will cause children's fear.

Children under the age of three have well-developed nerves, and excessive intimidation and rudeness of parents will make children overly nervous and have fear. When parents leave, they will haunt them, and suddenly they will be anxious, crying and nervous. I hope parents can correct their words and deeds, and hitting children is harmful.

5, it will make children hate.

Young children are very dependent on their parents, and beating and cursing will aggravate their bad behavior. Long-term violence not only affects the feelings between children and parents, but also may make children grow up in hatred in the future, thus retaliating against others and endangering society. Parents are advised not to use authority to suppress children's obedience, but to adopt appropriate methods and be persuasive.

6. It will make children develop the bad habit of lying.

Parents always want their children to admit their mistakes mainly by beating and cursing, but in fact, in order to avoid being beaten, children are likely to admit their mistakes against their will, and in the long run, they will form a bad habit of lying. Guide children in the right way and change the way of education.