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Repeated correction of wrong habits has failed to achieve positive results, so how should parents change their education methods?
Many children will have some wrong habits when they grow up, and parents will correct them repeatedly, but they often find that they have corrected them many times, but they have not achieved positive results. The next time they do the same thing, their bad habits are still not corrected. For example, when some children are studying, they habitually lie low and hold the pen incorrectly. These habits have a great influence on their study and health. Therefore, if parents have repeatedly corrected their wrong habits and found no positive results, they should start with their own educational methods.

First, when interrupting their behavior, don't use verbal scolding to correct their wrong habits. Most parents will immediately correct their wrong behavior, but many parents will often be accompanied by verbal scolding. For example, when a child squats very low when writing, parents will directly educate the child to say, "Why are you so low? Do you need eyes?" At this time, parents' bad tone and attitude will make children feel bored and disgusted. So this so-called "reminder" just makes children tired of their parents' behavior.

Children can't clearly understand from their parents' behavior that their behavior needs to be corrected. Their focus may be on parents' scolding, rather than correcting this behavior. Therefore, when parents repeatedly correct their children's wrong habits and interrupt their children's various behaviors, they should be careful not to be accompanied by scolding. They can remind their children warmly instead of talking to them in a scolding manner.

Second, patiently guide children and help them develop good habits. When parents learn to gently remind their children, they can also guide their children more effectively. Because some children have formed habitual behaviors for a long time, it is not easy to correct them in a short time. Parents need to remind them repeatedly and then guide them to really help them correct their wrong habits. When children habitually cross their legs, or do some little tricks that they have not found, parents must patiently remind them and tell them the disadvantages of these habits. One is to guide them to correct, and the other is to let them know that correcting one habit often requires the continuous cultivation of another habit to correct children's mistakes, so patient guidance is also a habit for parents to help their children correct their mistakes.

Third, I found the habit of correcting in time, not piling up problems and correcting mistakes repeatedly, that is, reminding children often. When parents find that their children have wrong habits, they must remind them in time and don't pile up the problems. Some parents may think that the child has only done this kind of wrong behavior once, just remind him next time, and then the problems will gradually accumulate over time.

Originally, children may simply do this kind of behavior, but because parents didn't remind them, they gradually developed their personal habits. It's even harder to correct them at this time. Therefore, when parents find that their children have any wrong habits, they should correct them in time. At this time, correction is the most effective and fastest solution.