1, respect children and don't make moral evaluation. Parents should not be too strict. Once their children are rebellious, they will be labeled as "disobedient" or even "online". In the process of communicating with children, use such words less to reduce children's rebellious psychology.

2, more understanding, more tolerance. Rebellion is a necessary life process for everyone. Put yourself in others' shoes. Parents have had youth before, and it is understandable that children are in a rebellious period. Let children fully feel the tolerance of their parents, which is conducive to the emotional precipitation of children and reduce unnecessary verbal collisions.

Stop and listen to the children. Children in the rebellious period often have many unspeakable feelings in their hearts, and their parents may ignore their emotional demands in their busy lives and work. In fact, only by telling and communicating can children and parents establish a more trusting relationship. Parents can help their children ease their emotions by communicating with them on an equal footing and giving advice to them from the perspective of an experienced person.

4. Find someone whose children are sure to inspire you. Boys and girls will have someone to talk to. If the rebellious child can't communicate well with his parents, he can find someone he trusts to communicate with him in another way. This may be better than forcing children to communicate with their parents.

5. Give children rights. Many strict parents may start educating their children when they find their rebellious behavior, and don't give them a chance to express their ideas at all. Some parents even give their children a film source ticket, "No TV" and "No going out to play". This overbearing way of communication is absolutely unacceptable! In the process of communication, parents should remember to give their children the right to express themselves, the right to control their own time, the right to decide their own things and the right to privacy.