2, learn to compare: to what extent the child's performance is poor, parents should look at the child's position in the class, the child's performance, and the overall level. Don't just look at the children's own achievements. When comparing with other children's classmates, don't just look at the top students, outstanding students and several comparisons, which will only make children lose confidence. Not only horizontal comparison, but also vertical comparison, so that children can compare themselves with themselves and see their progress.
3, learn to encourage: children are not good at learning, the children themselves are already very upset, parents should stop blindly criticizing their children, or even sarcasm, saying that children are so stupid, not as good as others, such criticism will only make children feel tired of learning, less grades, more encouragement, and encourage their progress in time.
4. Learn to reflect on yourself: parents should also reflect on their children's poor academic performance. Don't put all the responsibilities on their children, blame them for not studying hard, whether they care about their children's studies, help their homework, communicate with their children's performance in school, and actively communicate with the class teacher. Parents should also reflect on their own practices.
5, find out the reason: children do not learn well, parents should communicate with the class teacher in time, understand the reasons for children's poor learning, is the child's poor self-control, not listening to lectures in class, or neglecting to discipline children, children prefer watching TV, playing games online affects children, or children are tired of learning, don't like learning at all, learning methods are not equal, find out the reasons, and then find ways to make up for the results.
6. Admit the difference: children study poorly, but they work hard and study hard, which should be praised. Even if the child is poor in the eyes of the teacher, praise should be encouraged in the eyes of the parents. You should know that children are eager to learn well, but they have poor intelligence, slow learning and poor memory. This cannot be changed. Giving people a sound personality is more important than learning. Parents should not force their children to study.
7. Cultivate other interests: If you don't study well, most of the time, you will have no interest and confidence in learning. You feel inferior. You think you can't do anything well. The key is to let children regain their confidence in learning. You can cultivate their hobbies first, and children can find their own bright spots and feel great. With confidence, they can slowly regain their confidence in learning.