1. Family education methods: At present, many family education methods are improper, which is not conducive to children's development and growth. Usually, the wrong education methods mainly include doting, laissez-faire, violence and excessive material rewards.
Establish healthy family education methods, pay attention to the actual needs of children's physical and mental development characteristics, and carry out education with emphasis and purpose. Such as setting an example, environmental edification, persuasion and education, practical exercise, praise and reward, criticism and punishment, guiding and arranging life order, encouraging children to contact society, etc.
2. Parents' concept of cultivating children: Many families attach great importance to the cultivation of children, but they do not establish a correct concept of cultivation, do not pay attention to the reality of children, and lack targeted training methods. Imposing one's own ideas on children not only fails to respect children's development personality, but also ignores children's proper life characteristics and even stifles their potential and advantages.
Based on children's health, establish a correct educational concept and proceed from children's reality. Pay attention to the cultivation of children's behavior habits. We should also respect children, understand them, pay attention to their real thoughts, enhance their self-confidence and improve communication with them. Pay attention to the cultivation of children's ability and quality.
3, the direction of family education: a large number of parents do not pay attention to regulate their words and deeds, often make some wrong things in front of their children, or praise some bad behavior, children do not distinguish this, so they form a wrong understanding and follow suit. Over time, wrong values or wrong words and deeds have been formed.
Lead by example and set a good example for children. Confucius said that he was upright and did not command; His body is not straight, although he disobeys. Parents are children's first teachers, so every parent should set a good example for their children.