To be clear, when he was young. I won't tell him the truth until he comes of age.
The situation of IVF is more complicated. I am not a medical worker. I can't explain this question clearly, but I know that sperm and eggs are problematic. When it comes to this problem, it is more complicated. A lot of things depend on parents' medical knowledge and children's age characteristics. You can't explain this problem clearly to him.
If you can't say it clearly, you'd better not say it.
Some parents feel that both mom and dad have suffered a lot in the process of completing IVF. Why can't children know that they have suffered so much?
I don't think it's necessary. Think about what kind of psychology he will have to accept this question after you tell him about it. He will think, am I born to my parents? You will tell him that you were born to your parents, so he will continue to ask about IVF. What's the difference between me and other children?
You broke it, I'm afraid you can't understand it, which caused the children to have great doubts about where they came from. And all the children are particularly interested in this problem. They always ask, where am I from? You have to ask clearly, so if you don't know, it's better not to say.
When the child is an adult, if you really want to tell him. You can tell him that you are an IVF, and he will search for what is an IVF? How did he get here? This problem will be solved naturally.
If your child is a test-tube baby, will you tell him or her the truth?
I saw a news that there was a kindergarten class with more than a dozen pairs of twins, and most of them were test-tube babies. I'm sure some of them know.
Every child was born after his mother conceived in October. Every fetus grows up in the mother's womb, and IVF is no exception. So there is no difference between IVF and naturally conceived children.
The difference between IVF and natural conception. Will you tell the child that she is a test-tube baby?
There's no need to say it without asking the children. It's not taboo, but it's totally unnecessary. There is no essential difference between IVF and natural conception. Both of them were born after their mothers conceived in October, and both parents are diligently raising their children. What's there to say?
If the child asks, adults don't have to avoid it, just like telling the child a truth and explaining what happened clearly. And tell children the definition and social value of IVF. It's like giving a biology class to a child.
Will you tell the children?
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Hello, I'm Luo Mei. I'm glad to answer this question. If your child is a test-tube baby, will you tell her the truth?
The following is my answer. I will tell her the truth, but not when she is young, until she grows up.
Because I also do test tubes, I haven't had a transplant yet, and I have been afraid to go to the hospital because of the epidemic. It really takes time, money and energy to make a test tube. Physical examination began from September 20 19 to March 2020, and there was no transplant.
Making test tubes is really troublesome. You have to check all your bodies. If there is no problem, he can make a test tube. He won't let you enter the circulation until your physical indicators are up to standard. The birth check-up was originally in September, and he was allowed to enter the cycle in June 65438+1October 65438+1October, but thalassemia was diagnosed in June 19, and his hemoglobin was particularly low to 89, so he was not allowed to enter the cycle. Later, I opened that in the hospital and wanted to come back for a month. When I went up to check that the hemoglobin was not so low, it reached more than 100, and he let me enter the circulation. After entering the cycle, it is also very painful to have an ovulation needle. I need to call every day. If your body absorbs it faster, it may take eight or nine days. What I have seen most is overnight injection 15 days before ovulating. It hurts especially when taking eggs. It can be heated under anesthesia. It's a pity that when we took eggs in this batch, the hospital in Xincheng moved to the old city, so we didn't buy a pharmacist. We just went for an injection to relieve the pain, so it hurts very much. If your follicles are too shallow, it will be better. It will be particularly painful if it is too deep.
After taking the egg, he will combine your egg with sperm to form an embryo. The process of forming an embryo is very demanding. Some take more than 20 or even 30 eggs and can only produce one or two embryos. If you are lucky, there are many embryos, which can be used to raise blastocysts. The success rate of blastocyst transplantation is a little higher than that of a fresh embryo. I have seen it, too. If you take more than 10 eggs, or even 20 eggs, there will be no embryos that match successfully. If you don't have an embryo. Then you have to wait for the next time to promote discharge and warm up again. So it takes a lot of time, energy and money to make test tubes. If it succeeds once, the cost may be 20 thousand to 30 thousand. But if you don't succeed at first, it may cost more.
My idea, I hope it can help you [smile]
The child is very young, even if it is not an IVF, she doesn't quite understand how you told her how she was born. When the child grows up, she will understand what it means. There is nothing to hide, let children know that their parents have made more efforts than others, and love is as much or even more. My classmate made two test tubes, and the first one fell out in a few months. The couple are very sad. After a few years, it succeeded again. Now the eldest daughter goes to kindergarten, and she won't have a daughter until she is almost forty. At the full moon, we all went to celebrate for her. We are really happy for our classmates and feel that this baby is hard-won! My eldest cousin has done it several times, and every time she prepares hard, she is still not pregnant, but she is very sad. Now she says she has given up! Therefore, it is not easy for IVF to come. Parents should not be embarrassed to say, but be proud to tell your child how difficult it is for her to come!
I'll tell him. And will tell him the whole process of test tube in detail, because in this society, test tube baby is not a very strange thing, and the development of science and technology makes many infertile families happy, which is a good thing. Moreover, IVF is only fertilized in vitro by modern medical means, and the whole pregnancy process is the same. This is not a bad thing, but it can tell the baby how much preparation mom and dad have made for his arrival. His arrival brought not only happiness and beauty to this family, but also hope!
I'm glad to answer your question. I hope it helps you.
People who didn't understand being a test-tube baby before suddenly discovered these two days that a naturally born baby is actually the crystallization of love between parents. Perhaps the difference with others is that test-tube babies, their parents love each other more, so there is no other way to do test-tube babies. In fact, who doesn't want to get pregnant naturally?
The problem of 1 actually belongs to the category of sex education.
Children always ask questions and are curious about how they got here.
When children ask themselves this question, parents should scientifically and correctly popularize science. Say what the child asks, and don't tell the child if he doesn't ask.
For example, if a child asks me where I come from, it will be easier to explain if it is a test-tube baby. Just say that the doctor took my things and your father's things, combined them, put you in your mother's womb, and then when you grow up, the doctor took you out.
It's that simple.
If the child asks, is it the same for others?
To be fair, there are many children like you. Some of them are not, but the process is similar, except that you don't need a doctor to combine mom and dad's things.
Because parents are close, they can combine.
Then why can't you? Something on mom or dad doesn't work properly, so I need a doctor's help. That's very generous. Don't feel uncomfortable.
If the child asks, how did I get out?
Caesarean section is said to be taken out with the help of a doctor, and natural delivery is said to be born from the birth canal.
This is normal, and now many picture books will say so. Parents can also buy them for their children.
Therefore, parents have nothing to avoid.