This is recognition and encouragement for children. While improving the relationship between father and daughter, we should also educate children to know what is right and what is wrong. Yes, we must praise and encourage; If you are wrong, you must be brave enough to correct it.
Why give encouragement to children?
1, encouragement can improve children's self-confidence.
Encouraging children can effectively improve their self-confidence, let them know what they have done well, and let them know what factors have caused their good behavior, which can strengthen their sense of control and self-efficacy, which is of great positive significance for establishing a positive self-evaluation system for children and improving their sense of self-esteem.
Our encouragement makes it easier for children to feel the love of their parents.
Everyone in this world has shortcomings and advantages. First of all, let the children understand this. Let children know that everyone has different advantages and disadvantages. For example, when children are ridiculed by others because of their looks, parents can tell them that they don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, and they will always look the best in their parents' hearts.
3. Encouragement can give children courage and self-motivation.
Children will gain courage and self-motivation from encouragement. Yan Yuan, an educator in Qing Dynasty, once said, "It is better to win an award than to win an award." There are various forms of encouragement, which can be oral expression, kind smiling face or approving eyes.
The more parents encourage, the more motivated children will feel and the more willing they are to tap their abilities. Behind encouragement is the belief of respect. Parents who are good at encouraging their children in life create a positive, relaxed and positive family atmosphere for their children. Children absorb positive energy in this atmosphere and will grow up healthily and happily.