First, create an educational atmosphere for democratic growth.
Parents' parenting attitude and parenting style play a decisive role in the formation of children's character. The correct way of family education should be democratic education. In this way, parents don't interfere with their children's activities at will, but they don't let themselves go, but give correct guidance and guidance on the basis of loving and respecting their children; Parents are strict with their children, but not demanding; Discuss things with children, but don't force the opinions of adults on them. Democratic parenting attitude makes children form a kind, gentle, emotionally stable and thoughtful character; Or form an independent, straightforward, positive and cooperative character. Practice has proved that creating an atmosphere of democratic upbringing is conducive to the healthy growth of children.
Second, create a quiet and harmonious emotional atmosphere.
Family atmosphere has a very important influence on children's personality. There are usually two kinds of family atmosphere: one is mutual respect, friendship and harmony among family members; Second, there are constant quarrels, but there is a certain emotional attachment. Living in different family atmosphere will form different personalities. A quiet and harmonious family atmosphere makes children feel safe and happy, optimistic and confident, and friendly to others. A nervous family makes children live in fear and extreme anxiety for a long time, forming personality characteristics such as depression, distrust and emotional anxiety. We call on such parents to control their emotions, behave appropriately, set an example for their children everywhere, and strive to create a quiet and harmonious family atmosphere for their healthy growth.
Third, create a healthy and upward cultural atmosphere.
Parents are the children's first teachers and the spiritual support of underage children. Parents' words and deeds, every move is an example for children to imitate. Therefore, parents play a leading role in creating a healthy and upward atmosphere: First, they should pay attention to their own ideological and moral cultivation. Always maintain a positive and normal attitude towards the world, be optimistic, open-minded, aggressive, be strict with yourself, be lenient with others, pay attention to getting along with others, and pay special attention to your influence in front of children. In this way, in a subtle way, the child has developed a good character. The second is to create a beautiful cultural environment. A beautiful cultural environment is not luxurious decoration, but neat and simple, creating an educational atmosphere. To create a family learning atmosphere, parents should set an example, like reading books and newspapers, pursue new knowledge, and influence their children with diligence. For example, you can talk to your children about your experiences or opinions and train your speaking skills by reading newspapers and watching TV programs together. In leisure time, the family goes out by car, takes their children to the library or bookstore, guides them to borrow books and buy books to learn and increase their knowledge; Or often assemble some gadgets with children; Or take the children to the park to enjoy the fresh air of nature; Or take the children to the community to swing, throw kites, learn to ride bicycles and fly kites, and have fun with the children; Participating in these collective activities together is conducive to enhancing the feelings between family members, and also provides more opportunities and time for spiritual exchange between the two generations. At the same time, in such relaxed and happy joint activities, it is easy to get to know each other, run in with each other, influence each other and learn from each other, and it is easy to achieve twice the result with half the effort.
Fourth, create a studious learning atmosphere.
"The development ability of children depends on the development of parents." The influence of parents' cultural literacy on children's childhood socialization has been proved by many educators and sociologists. The level of parents' cultural literacy is directly proportional to their children's academic performance. The reason for this is that most of these parents with good cultural literacy know and are good at educating and guiding their children with correct educational attitudes and scientific educational methods. Another important reason is that these parents are generally studious and have a tireless pursuit of knowledge. In such a family, a strong atmosphere of study and research has been formed. Under the long-term influence and edification of this atmosphere, it is self-evident that children can easily form a good habit of loving learning and pursuing knowledge. Therefore, parents should not only educate their children with correct educational attitude and scientific educational methods and means, but also try to influence and influence their children with their exemplary actions of loving and studying hard. Good family learning atmosphere and "silent education" from parents can play a role that other educational methods can't.
Some people say that children are a magical land. You sow the seeds of thought, and you will reap the harvest of behavior. Sow the seeds of behavior and you will reap the habits; Sow the seeds of habit, and you will get moral harvest; Sow the seeds of morality and you will reap the future. Parents, change the methods of family education so that children can develop healthily and grow up happily in a good family education environment!