Family Education Guidance From 7 years old to 12 years old, many parents expect their children to have a good development in the future, so it is very important to learn how to educate their children from an early age. The following is the sharing of family education guidance methods for 7- 12 years old.
7 years old to 12 years old family education guidance 1 1, environmental edification
Parents should consciously create a good living environment for their children to be infected and edified. Because the family is the main place for children's life, parents should create a good living environment, handle the relationship between members, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, establish an orderly life order, and take into account the children's beautiful sentiments.
Step 2 set an example
Example is an important way to influence and educate children from other people's good thoughts and behaviors. For example, neighbors, teachers, classmates, model figures, revolutionary leaders and other excellent qualities are all children's learning objects. Sometimes whether parents' words and deeds are correct or not will have a very profound impact on children. Therefore, parents should always behave themselves in their daily lives.
3. Praise and reward
Praise and affirm children's thoughts and behaviors through praise and reward. Such praise and affirmation will strengthen children's initiative and sense of honor and strive for greater progress. Praise and reward should also be realistic, timely and explain the reasons, and should be based on spiritual rewards, supplemented by material rewards.
4. Criticism and punishment
Criticism and punishment are the negation of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, and the latter is the educational means for children's bad thoughts and behaviors in the afterlife. When criticizing and punishing, we should fully understand the situation, grasp the specific circumstances and serious procedures of bad thoughts, point out their harm and ideological roots from the wrong reality, so as to deny their thoughts and behaviors and make them feel ashamed and miserable.
5. Life order
A good life order in family education is the best way to cultivate children's good habits. It is to guide children to arrange their daily lives, decorate their living environment, teach children to learn and use their time. Parents can guide them.
Step 6 persuade education
In the conversation, parents should be reasonable, put forward the facts according to the children's thoughts, and let the children understand some truth. The conversation must be targeted, flexible and friendly, and don't keep a straight face. Discussion, sometimes parents should discuss with their children, respect their children when speaking, listen to their opinions patiently, and reason patiently if there are incorrect opinions, so that children can distinguish right from wrong.
7. Reading after class
In spare time, parents can guide their children to read books, newspapers and magazines, so that children can learn useful spiritual nutrition from them. Parents should master the content of their children's reading, discuss with them and guide them to increase their knowledge through reading.
8. Contact with society
Usually, take children to parks, shops, scenic spots, rural areas or visit classmates, relatives and friends for social interaction, so that children can broaden their horizons, get in touch with society and get to know society.
7-year-old to 12-year-old family education guidance 2 In terms of academic performance, regardless of whether the performance is good or bad, parents should not bring emotions to their faces. If they are good, they should encourage them appropriately. If they are not good, they should not criticize their children loudly, and they should guide them correctly in education.
In life, you must never compare him with others. Today's children have strong self-esteem, emotional sensitivity and are prone to rebellious psychology.
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In terms of personal growth, parents should actively participate in their children's growth and establish correct values and outlook on life. For example, they can take their children to see various affairs and feel for themselves within their own capabilities.
7 years old to 12 years old family education guidance 3 I. What does learning mean to children?
Learning means a new skill or cognition of new things to a great extent for children, and then the time of cognition is judged by the knowledge learned. Teaching the baby to learn to speak from the beginning is to exercise his language expression ability and learn to express his feelings in language, so that he can convey his information in language for others to receive in the future.
When children grow up, they begin to enter all stages of kindergarten, primary school, middle school and university. These different stages are to let children get in touch with the world and learn to get along with people and things in this world. The knowledge gained in this process is regarded as his view of the world and his understanding of things. The knowledge you have learned and the achievements you have made are often regarded as your acceptance of this knowledge.
Therefore, in the true sense, learning is more important to children's skills and expression. Achievement, as an act of knowing the world, cannot play a decisive role in a child's life. I think the most important thing for children is the influence of family education. Parents' education for their children will be reflected in their upbringing, behavior habits, personality and so on, and even play a decisive role in their development direction.
Second, the significance of family education
Family education refers to parents' purposeful education for their children. Good family education should have an important influence on the healthy development of children's body and mind. The characteristics of family education are mainly embodied in enlightenment, infection, authority and particularity, that is, parents should play a guiding role in their children's education, pass on correct values to their children, and at the same time infect their children to share with others. Parents can teach students in accordance with their aptitude and seek truth from facts.
We often say that parents are like children, which shows that parents are role models for children, and their behaviors and concepts will have a subtle influence on children. Therefore, the significance of family education lies in cultivating children's character, good upbringing and correct values.
Third, how to carry out family education and what parents should do.
What should parents do about their children's education? First of all, what parents need to do is to put themselves in the other's shoes, that is to say, parents need to feel their children's feelings and don't think about their children's world from the perspective of adults. Secondly, parents should spend more time with their children and get to know them comprehensively in the process of getting along. On the other hand, it is also very important for parents to have correct ideas and behaviors, set an example and play an exemplary role.
Therefore, on the issue of children's education, parents can consider the following aspects:
1, don't make decisions for children, step in.
2. Don't vent your emotions to your children at will.
3, to lead children to do it together, don't just talk and don't practice.
Of course, I just briefly said a few points. For children's family education, parents still have a lot to explore in the future.