Yesterday, the official account of People's Daily WeChat published an article "Return the ruler to the teacher"! This primary school will punish Xiong Haizi. It tells the story that a primary school in Changzhou, Jiangsu Province will "eat crabs", introduce a system to punish Xiong Haizi, and hold a hearing for this.

I think if this question were put in ancient times, all teachers would be surprised:

Isn't it natural for teachers to punish disobedient students?

I specially checked the relevant information on the Internet and learned that:

In Oracle Bone Inscriptions of Yin Shang Dynasty, the word "teach" was vividly expressed as: children learn arithmetic under the threat of corporal punishment with sticks. The appearance of the image of "teaching" has a long evolution process, and China's "education punishment" has a long history.

Educator Yang Xianjiang once said, "Where there is life, there is education." Therefore, it can also be said that "with education, there will be educational punishment."

Since educational punishment is the companion of education, it has internal relations, and it is only an important means and tool of education. But why now: when we say that punishment is often derogatory?

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Why doesn't the teacher hold up the "ruler"

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"If the son doesn't teach, the father is at fault, teaching is lax, and the teacher is lazy", and "strict teacher makes a teacher" ...

I believe many people will recite these famous aphorisms when they are not in school. However, why is the teacher afraid to lift the "ruler" now?

On September 20th, 20 17, Teacher Liu Hai whipped the students' hips and legs with a pointer because they didn't finish their homework, and was finally punished by the administrative record.

2065438+June 2008, the head teacher xu teacher beat the students for punishing them for urinating on the teacher. Finally, he apologized to the parents of the students, paid the medical expenses, and was ordered by the school to learn the teacher's code of conduct and was given a warning. informed criticism.

I have also seen the true story of such a netizen on the Internet:

A famous math teacher who has been teaching in county-level middle schools for more than ten years has impeccable professional standards. Local students and parents are proud of being able to enter her class by all means. The teacher lived up to expectations and worked hard year after year to continue the myth of mathematics teaching. Everything is wonderful.

Until a video of a teacher beating a student spread quickly on the Internet:

In the video, the teacher punched and kicked three or four male students in front of the blackboard and scolded them. ...

In this way, the respected math teacher fell into the whirlpool of public opinion:

The message at the bottom of the video came straight at the sword, and the personal attacks of the ancestors of the 18 th generation and the bottomless abuse of online classes instantly shattered her three views ...

Perhaps, it is easier for everyone to accept a teacher with spring breeze and rain than an excellent teacher. But she is a girl who is anxious and even angry when she sees that students don't study hard: if you don't build the school well while you are young, you don't know how hard it will be in the future! ?

She believes in such a sentence: rest when you are young and rest when you are old!

Therefore, when those students ignored her repeated orders and went their own way and didn't do their homework, her anger reached its peak. ...

She has experienced the storm of the virtual world and the heavy blow of the real society.

After the education department intervened, the results came out soon:

Informed criticism, the county, withheld one year's salary, apologized to the parents concerned, and transferred from the original unit to teach primary schools in rural areas.

Later, it was said that the former famous teacher resigned voluntarily after teaching children in the countryside 1+ 1=2 for half a year.

In the 1980s, there was a strong atmosphere of respecting teachers and valuing education in society. It is no problem for teachers to hit with a ruler. Some parents will thank their teachers for educating their children. If you are eager to make a move now, the next thing will be very troublesome.

Because as long as the teacher hit the student and was sued by the parents, most of the communication with the parents ended without results, and most of them ended in the teacher's final compromise. Most education departments adopt a zero-tolerance attitude to deal with school troubles decisively, which is definitely a trilogy of "admitting mistakes, apologizing and being punished" by teachers.

Many teachers say:

The relationship between teachers and students is not so pure now. When teachers are in charge of students, they must be alert and not let go. Therefore, many teachers are afraid to lift the "ruler" and don't want to lift the "pointer"!

We don't rule out that some teachers who have been punished will punish excessively, and they deserve it. But we believe that many teachers are teachers with rulers in their hands and light in their eyes.

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Why don't parents recognize that children are punished?

I remember some time ago, a friend complained indignantly about his son's teacher in a circle of friends. I learned that it turned out that the child didn't finish his homework and his ears were red and swollen by the teacher's corporal punishment. His son has been complaining about pain and even fell asleep. Still crying and scared.

In recent days, my son has also shown great resistance, and he doesn't want to go to school or see his classmates. Therefore, he was very angry. He is more worried about his children. He has always wanted to talk to the teacher and to give him trouble. Fortunately, his wife stopped him.

2065438+On July 25th, 2008, Guilin Evening News reported that Mr. Huang sent his son to attend the summer camp. Grandma came home on her birthday and found obvious bruises on her thighs and calves.

Under questioning, the son said:

During the break, two classmates joined forces to play with him, so he found a piece of wood to chase. Later, when the classmate complained, the teacher dragged him to the kitchen boiler to stand as punishment.

I was angry at that time. I thought the teacher was unreasonable, so I scolded the teacher and spat several times. Xiao Kai said, and then the teacher took a wooden stick and beat his right thigh one by one. The teacher took him to the school auditorium and continued to stand for more than two hours. There were other students coming to watch the fun, so he stretched out his hand and pointed to them. After the teacher found out, he hit him on the right thigh with a wooden stick.

Although, the teacher also said why Kay should punish Kay:

Naughty, don't listen to the teacher's criticism, spit on teachers and classmates, repeatedly emphasize that children are too thin, don't listen to anything, and be punished appropriately.

Xiao Kai's father, Mr. Huang, questioned:

What big mistake did the child make, and the teacher would hurt the child with such cruel hands?

I believe you have seen or heard of such parents, because now they are all children, and they are all baby bumps at home. With the whole family around, how can we fight? Just like the flowers in the greenhouse are spoiled, I am afraid of hurting my self-esteem and destroying my self-confidence, and I am also afraid of affecting the healthy growth of my children. Compared with those who were generally scolded by teachers in the 1980 s, they are more fragile than a little.

As parents, it is inevitable to feel sorry for their children. As a teacher, it is the responsibility to educate children. At present, parents and teachers seem to be at odds in their children's education.

Because, in reality, there is no clear boundary between "punishment" and "corporal punishment", and there are no clear rules. In this case, teachers think that "necessary and appropriate punishment" is likely to be regarded as "corporal punishment" by parents and students, which will lead to contradictions between teachers and students and even between home and school.

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The right to education and punishment is not what teachers need, but what our children need.

The best diamonds must be cut.

In the Ming Dynasty, an educator named Huang Zuo put forward:

Play truant for no reason, recite 200 books at a time; Add tarts for the second time and punish ten pieces of paper; Three times, he was punished as before, and his father and brother were still punished.

Teachers can not only "beat" students, but even punish their families. (Although it is a rare personalized regulation)

Mr. Shou Jason Wu, Lu Xun's first teacher, is a learned and extremely rigorous person. In his "San Tan Yin Yue", there are rules of rulers and penalty kneeling.

In this world, the last person to be criticized is a teacher, and the last person to be indulged and indulged is Xiong Haizi. Although there are many materials that can be carved in the world, the process of carving into the original jade stone is also very hard, and it can only shine after it is completed.

Throughout the ages, Xiong Haizi has existed in every era, and many teachers have made Xiong Haizi's management education an elite. Ding Wei, the prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, made a special trip to visit Mr. Jiao Ye when he returned to his hometown, saying that he was "a poor young man. He taught him and made it difficult for him to stand on his feet, all thanks to him."

A former boss of our company is very grateful to the primary school teachers for their strict discipline. He was the youngest child in his family when he was a child. He is naughty in class, makes trouble everywhere after class, and is often complained by his classmates' parents, who have a headache for him and even don't want to take care of him. Fortunately, he has a good class teacher who stares at him for half a year in class and after school. He was severely punished and stimulated. The pointer was interrupted several times and finally slowly pulled back to the right path, which led to the present achievement. So I often call now, and I don't forget to see my teacher every time I go home.

The netizen "the clouds are light and the wind is light" said: If the teacher didn't discipline me strictly when I was a child, maybe I really became an out-and-out street punk. I'm glad my parents didn't go to school that year, otherwise my life might have been ruined.

Netizen "Prince" said: I was admitted to the university because the teacher hit me. At that time, I didn't like studying, and I was naughty and almost expelled from school by my teacher. It was my father who apologized to the teacher and told me to continue my study. My father told the teacher that if he didn't listen, he would hit me hard. I am still very grateful to the teacher, and now I think I am right.

Netizen "Invincible Test" said: When I was at school, every time I took a math test, the teacher asked us to score, but I couldn't reach the required score, and I almost whipped a few points! Pull back with the bamboo stick of the bamboo broom! I have a bloody zit on my back. When I came home, my mother saw it. Anyway, I deserve it!

Netizen "Winter Night Stove" said: I was beaten by my teacher when I was a child. I'm afraid to go home and tell my parents. My parents may beat me again. I felt that the teachers at that time were highly respected. In fact, parents were afraid of teachers.

Teachers are engineers of the human soul, and teachers are the most glorious profession in the world.

When Minister of Education Chen Baosheng 20 18 appeared in the "Ministerial Channel" of Hehe, in front of a group of reporters, Minister Chen's phrase "Make teachers an enviable profession" warmed the hearts of many teachers.

On 20 17, a mother wrote an article "Children, I hope you can meet a teacher with a ruler and light in your eyes", which aroused the resonance of countless netizens.

In the questionnaire survey of teachers, we come to the conclusion that more than 95% teachers think that appropriate punishment is necessary. In recent years, there are more and more voices on the Internet about "returning the ruler to the teacher".

Because the right to education punishment is not what teachers need, but what our children need.

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