Parents should communicate with their children calmly and equally. Stay calm, communicate with children on an equal footing, and don't be too paternalistic. Parents only need to forcibly discipline their children's general direction, principles and routes. If there is a problem with the general principle, it can be solved through family law. As for the small details, communicate with children on an equal footing and promote their progress.
3. reduce nagging. Some parents just grab their children, defend them and make a long speech. The result is endless nagging. The more parents nag, the more disgusted their children are, and the children will deliberately not listen to them to show their resistance. So parents should talk less and talk more. Let your child listen to you with a smile. Once the conversation gets out of control, change your strategy.
4. Help children in time. It is impossible for every child to grow up smoothly. ? When children encounter setbacks, they often feel confused, confused and anxious. At this time, the more parents blame their children, the easier it is for them to be disobedient. Giving inspiration, encouragement and sincere help will narrow the distance with your child's heart, and your child will be willing to talk to you when communicating.
5. Choose the right time. Choose the right time, communicate with your child at the right time, and don't just say it when you think about it. Endless. For example, urge children to learn, introduce learning methods, and teach them before exams and in peacetime. If you finish the exam, you will be a little confessed, but the effect is not very good.
Therefore, for parents, if they want to build a bridge of communication with their children, they must seize the opportunity to communicate with their children.
Care about children's lives, pay attention to children's learning, and look at the problem from the perspective of children. You will find it not difficult to educate your children.