My friend's children study very well. In order to make their children learn well, their parents signed up for various training courses. There is almost no free time on Saturday and Sunday. Immersed in the training class every day. The children also live up to expectations, and the door is right. My friend thinks that their children will be selected as "three good children" at the end of the term. Surprisingly, few of them choose their own children. She was surprised and angry. She thought there was something fishy about it, so none of her children were selected.

I have seen that little boy. His study is really good. He doesn't care much about anything except his busy study. He basically ignores acquaintances and looks a little arrogant. In addition, the child's self-care ability is not good, and the mother usually manages it too carefully.

Lu Xun said:? Education is to cultivate people. ? Now, good grades are no longer the only indicator to measure a child's Excellence. Children have the following five manifestations, and they are also easily isolated and unpopular by their classmates.

have no manners

British philosopher John? Locke once said: politeness is the first and most important thing in the habits that children and young people should pay special attention to. ?

See a little video. On a bus, a boy repeatedly kicked a man's hand with his foot. The man kept staring at him, and finally stood up and threw the boy to the ground. Netizens are a little one-sided, saying that Xiong Haizi made a mistake first. Indeed, rude children, regardless of their parents, will pay for it one day.

All families are child-centered. All kinds of unreasonable troubles of children are not a big deal in the eyes of parents. But in society, it is really impossible to spoil him all the time.

And polite children, whether neighbors or classes, will be liked. According to scientific statistics, such children are more likely to succeed when they grow up.

Break the rules

Once, I took my son to queue up for a bus. Later, a neighbor's grandmother also came by bus. Grandma was waiting in line, but signaled her grandson to drill through the crowd and run to the front. My son was very young at that time. I saw my little brother who usually plays with me run to the front and want to follow him. I said, no, I have to line up to get on the bus. In fact, if you count the people in line, there are still seats. There is no need to go to the front first.

Always let the children behave badly. After a long time, the child will develop bad habits, which may be brought to school and affect the teacher's opinion of him.

tell a lie

Do children lie because of their own internal reasons, such as fear of being beaten to death by their parents? Clean up? Trying to avoid certain responsibilities and obligations, parents can deeply understand the deep-seated reasons of their children and stop this phenomenon in time.

Lying can also be divided into unintentional lying and intentional lying. If a child likes to brag that he had super powers when he was a child, it is not a lie. When a child fabricates a lie for some purpose, he should try to correct it.

Once lying becomes a habit, children may be complacent and think that lying has so many benefits.

selfish

I attended a wedding reception before. There is a chubby little boy on the table. Obviously, he likes to eat a dish called sweet and sour tenderloin, so he turned the turntable directly to himself and ate it vigorously. The grandmother next to her explained that she liked this sweet mouth, and everyone was embarrassed to dispute with a child. Then two male guests left without eating.

Refuse to admit a mistake

I took my son to the library the other day and met a little boy who was losing his temper. It's no use persuading him. He clasped his hands around his chest. It was his grandparents who took him. He has been running around in the library, making noise. When the staff stopped him, he was so angry that he didn't realize that he was wrong.

Grandpa threatened him and said, just go home. He still refused to grab grandpa's phone and call his mother, saying that others bullied him. Nowadays, most families admire American education, so children feel that others can't say anything about themselves and they are always right. Even if I realize my mistake, I refuse to admit it, and finally it becomes unreasonable.

Don't act on small good, and don't act on small evil. Children are like saplings. When they were young, they straightened up and naturally became pillars when they grew up. When they are young, they will let their bad habits drift, which will be more difficult to control.