Children are the hope of the future. When a parent gives birth to a child, he should not only bring up the child, but also undertake the heavy responsibility of educating the child.

But not every parent is a natural educator, so I think parents should take the initiative to learn some parenting knowledge and methods through books, or often communicate with other parents to learn their successful parenting experience. Of course, children have personality differences, and some successful parenting experiences may not be useful to their children. I remember J. J. had a training class to learn dulcimer when he was in kindergarten. I asked him if he liked dulcimer. He said yes, so he signed up, but he didn't want to leave right away. Teacher Yangqin taught me a method: prepare the toys that children like in advance, and tell him that he must listen to the teacher carefully and do them with the teacher before he can get them, but the result is invalid. Later, I analyzed that children were not interested in learning dulcimer and gave up rationally. Therefore, parents should learn to experience, analyze and summarize the parenting experience suitable for their children in their lives.

Parents should also pay attention that their usual words and deeds have a great influence on their children. Children have the shadow of parents, not only genetic factors, but also the subtle influence of parents' words and deeds. There is a joke: the mother asked her son, "Mingming, where did you get your exercise book?" The son replied, "I picked up two books when there was no one in the school office." The mother was very angry and scolded her son, "Who told you to steal it? Isn't what I got back from the office enough for you? " Therefore, when parents scold their children's bad words and deeds, they should think about whether they are responsible. Of course, if you want your children to have many good qualities, then parents should set an example, and words are better than deeds.

I think it is important to adhere to the cultivation of children's life and study habits. I have a deep understanding of this. My child has many bad habits, such as sloppy, procrastination, poor self-care ability and so on. These are all my responsibilities. It is quite difficult to find problems and change them. So I don't think I am a successful mother, but this child has two advantages that I am proud of so far: one is kindness. Kindness is the foundation of human beings. I encourage my child to be kind and make him feel that it is beautiful to be kind to others. Second, I love reading. When the child was young, I read books with him. I never spare my time when he can read and write by himself, and I will praise him when I need to be an audience.

The above is my personal experience of accompanying my children to grow up. There is no ready-made standard for what is a good parenting method. I think the growth of children gives us adults a chance to learn again. Parents should cherish this opportunity to grow up happily with their children.

I have been exploring the education of children, learning from the experience of my predecessors and combining the characteristics of children. After his son went to kindergarten, he thrived under the careful cultivation of teachers. Every progress he makes makes us parents feel proud and proud. I mainly have the following three experiences.

Appreciate education. Appreciating children is the best way to cultivate their self-confidence. The loveliest thing about a child is not his cleverness and liveliness, but his confidence. Self-confidence helps him to face the challenges from study and everything else bravely now and in the future. The process of cultivating self-confidence is a long-term, gradual and intangible process. In daily life, a look, a gesture and a compliment from parents are invisible forces, which can stimulate children's fighting spirit, enhance their confidence and inspire their courage. When our son takes the initiative to help us with housework ... we will give him a "great" and give him an appreciative look. Our children grew up in such an atmosphere. For parents, loving children is a matter of course, which is extremely simple, but it is difficult to know how to love children. Numerous parenting practices have made us understand the truth that "if you love children, you must know how to appreciate them", and the effect of encouragement and praise is far better than reprimanding and beating.

Mutual respect will help children to know how to respect teachers and parents, which will help them consciously correct their daily behavior. Teachers and parents are the most important and sacred people in children's minds. Establishing the prestige of teachers and parents in children's minds and letting children consciously and sincerely correct their behaviors according to the requirements of teachers and parents is helpful to cultivate children's good study habits and living habits, which is a valuable asset for children to benefit from all their lives. Let children learn to respect teachers, ask parents to set an example, respect their own teachers and respect their children's teachers. Parents should fully support and cooperate with everything that teachers ask them to support and cooperate, with the aim of establishing teachers' lofty prestige in children's minds. The best way to teach children to respect their parents is to keep their promises. Let children keep their promises from childhood and know what a promise is. On the one hand, it helps to establish the prestige of parents, on the other hand, it helps to cultivate the excellent quality of children. At the same time, we should also respect children, who need equal education. There is a famous saying called "squat down to look after the children". We should kneel down to keep the same height as the children, look at the problem and the world with children's eyes, so as to truly respect and understand the children. Only under this premise, parents are more willing to actively create more time and space to understand, analyze and care for their children and provide them with the most suitable education.

Guide education. "Fathers want their children to succeed, and mothers want their daughters to succeed", which is our nature as parents. However, if this expectation exceeds the range that children can bear, it will become a burden for children and hinder their happy and healthy growth. We don't want our son to live for the expectations of his parents. Let children develop freely is the principle we have always adhered to in the process of educating children. But free development does not mean that teachers and parents are his navigators in the process of children's growth. When he was in a coma, we checked and urged him in strict accordance with the teacher's requirements; When he is in trouble, we give him timely guidance. At the same time, pay attention to discovering his shortcomings, specialties and interests, and give targeted guidance. Our purpose is not to make him famous and have a family. We only hope that he will be more confident and appreciate the fun of life because of his own ability in his future life!

These are my three superficial experiences in parenting. We know that every step of the son's growth is soaked with the teacher's hard work and sweat. I sincerely thank the teachers who helped my son acquire knowledge and grow up happily!

Some people say, "There are no children who can't be taught, only parents who can't be taught." I quite agree with this view. So how can we educate our children well? I think parents should not only have a good parenting attitude, but also pay attention to parenting methods. Let me talk about my own experience in educating my son:

1. As parents, we should first adjust our mentality and recognize the child's personality characteristics, advantages and disadvantages. In the face of children's education, we should have a stable mood and a healthy mood. Which parents don't love their children, but love doesn't mean connivance. Parents must not follow their children in everything, learn to refuse their children, and let them know why you refuse him. What is your reason for refusing? Let him know that sometimes rejecting him is also a kind of love for him. On the long road of life, everything may not go smoothly, and even if it doesn't, he knows what to do.

2. Pay attention to moral education. If parents want to know what kind of person they want their children to be, they must know the truth of "learn to be a man first, then learn to be a man". Only people with good conduct will be respected and respected by others. Therefore, we pay more attention to children's moral education, and often regard ideals, beliefs and love as the main educational goals, which run through the whole process of children's education.

3. Communicate with children more, listen carefully and understand their psychological needs. Generally speaking, I still pay attention to communicating with children. I call it chatting. For example, what happened to you at school and kindergarten today? What makes you happy and unhappy? But chatting is not nagging. If you can turn nagging into chatting, and give children more affirmation and encouragement at the same time. As the saying goes, "it is better to win a prize than to win a prize." No matter how small the advantages of children are, we should affirm and praise them, which is very beneficial to cultivate their self-confidence. Of course, a warm and harmonious family is also very important for children. Family harmony can cultivate children's happy personality and positive attitude towards life, so that children can grow up healthily and happily.

4. Pay attention to pioneering thinking and demand all-round development. Children's interests are varied and constantly changing. According to this characteristic of children, we should develop their intelligence reasonably, broaden their thinking and let them learn as much as possible. At the same time, parents should adapt to this feature in the process of children's development, supplement and absorb all aspects of knowledge in time, and answer children's questions. I think it is very important that parents should take part in children's activities more.

5. Encourage more and reprimand less. Never say anything like "stupid", "naughty" and "worthless" in front of children. Because today's children have strong self-esteem, your child's young mind will be hurt. In fact, when you blame her for disappointing, you can squat down and encourage him with an encouraging tone.

6. Put education into practice. Give children more opportunities to practice instead of directly blaming them. For example, children are often asked to buy things like salt and soap. You may miscalculate the children at first. Don't blame him at this time, and then let him buy it again. After several times, children usually make fewer mistakes when they buy things again. This method of not blaming the failure on the children, but trying to make them practice, practice and experience repeatedly can always achieve good results.

Parents are the best teachers for children, and educating children is a long-term process. In the process of educating children, we should not be too hasty. We should consider their physical and psychological conditions and give them more patience. Believe that your children are the best!

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