1, be reasonable to your child, don't criticize and scold rudely.

When children have unreasonable demands and practices, the first thing parents should do is to explain the truth to their children and tell them the unreasonable places. Let children realize that their actions are wrong, where they are wrong and why they are wrong. Parents of children who don't like to listen to sermons can tell some relevant stories to make them understand the truth and explain it to them in good faith.

Never educate your child in a threatening tone and in a rude way, which will cause your child to be afraid of you and can't clearly stick to his correct position. This is a long-term process, and it will take some time to get results.

Parents should learn to respect their children's opinions.

For children's stubborn and willful behavior, we can't just express our dissatisfaction with children, but let children have the opportunity to express and explain. Let him explain clearly the reasons for insisting on this matter, lest parents wronged their children. If he can give a reasonable explanation for this seemingly unreasonable request, parents should not only respect their opinions.

3. For children who can't listen to the truth and are too willful, learn to use kindness and kindness.

For example, when crying, parents can quietly observe and ignore it. Children will give up this expression after a long time when they see that they have not paid attention to it. When the child loses his temper and makes trouble unreasonably, he should be given a reasonable cold treatment. Take the child to a quiet place to calm him down; And let the children bear the corresponding consequences.

4. The influence of parents' personality on children and the importance of setting an example.

Children should be polite and gentle, and parents must do it. If parents are bad-tempered, no amount of truth is convincing to children, because with such a bad example, all truth is pale and powerless. Therefore, for the sake of children's future and children's good character, parents should change themselves and put away their rude education methods to convince others!