Speaking of thrift, we all know that it is a traditional virtue. People in ancient times advocated and paid great attention to thrift. However, if some ideas continue to this day, they will not conform to the contemporary situation. Some traditional virtues may become wrong ideas, and children may lose watermelons and pick up sesame seeds.

Sometimes the excessive "frugality" of children is no longer a good virtue, but a vision and pattern that has quietly passed away.

Recently, a treasure mother in the treasure mother group shared such a thing. She heard that the neighbor's mother is very frugal in educating her children, and she must not spend more money or spend money indiscriminately.

For example, if a child in this family goes out with his mother and wants something, her mother refuses him because she knows it is not cheap, and every time, even if she sees something she likes, she is unwilling to buy it for herself.

After reading the above examples, we all know that sometimes excessive frugality will not only ruin children's character, but also ruin their horizons to some extent. Why do you say that? As can be seen from the following points.

1, parents are too frugal, which makes children feel guilty and inferior.

If parents are too thrifty, crying in front of their children every day is also the executioner who affects their physical and mental health. Children will feel inferior when they grow up, and all good things are not worthy of him.

It is difficult for such children to have any future by denying themselves from the bottom of their hearts. Because they don't know how to get along with others and how to deal with interpersonal relationships.

2. Children are greedy and petty, haggle over every ounce, and won't make friends.

People who like to haggle over every ounce can't make friends. Children who have been taught to be too thrifty since childhood are easy to haggle over every penny and want to take advantage of it at the sight of it. People who are greedy for small money are doomed not to walk for long, and it is difficult to achieve great things.

Moreover, people who like to haggle over every ounce will always try their best to gain benefits from others, and in this process, they will inevitably spend a lot of energy and time, so their horizons will be limited and narrow.

3. If you save too much money, children will lose many good opportunities, that is, the pattern is small.

Parents love money too much and are always frugal, which will make their children miss many opportunities.

For example, children's piano lessons are expensive and take a long time to learn. Some parents are rich, but they don't want to register their children. They think it's a waste of money. In this way, children may miss the opportunity of art training and will not grasp some opportunities in the future.